u/MildlyDeceased

My mom has Fibromyalgia and from what I’ve gathered about it, it can be genetic. I’ve thought about bringing it up to my dr, but I’m also type 1 diabetic and have neuropathy in my feet and have scoliosis and arthritis in my spine so everything always gets passed off as pain from those. But my pain is ALL over. My legs, Arms, shoulders etc. I think sex is a trigger because after that it’s worse and then I don’t wanna do anything for weeks at a time (a month or little over) because my body is in a lot of pain and I know people advise against “Dr Google” but Fibromyalgia is what popped up when I put all my symptoms. It’s just something I do because I’m tired of all things being passed off as pain from neuropathy in my feet or pain from my spine when this pain is nothing of the sort and I’d know because I live with it. I know the difference. Sometimes it feels like the body aches you get from a severe cold except times 10. I don’t know how to bring up the suggestion to my dr because I just know they’ll say it’s from one of the two other things. It’s hard to be heard. I also have sensory issues cause’ things like humming, tapping, teeth grinding feels like I’m hearing nails scratch on a board. I’ve seen where that’s part of this too.

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I’m a little annoyed. So my husbands ex wife still tries to insert herself in his family. That part isn’t what truly annoys me. It’s that she passes herself off as some redeemed Christian and she’s not at all. She’s the one who tried to file a restraining order on me couple years ago claiming I SA’d their daughter when I didn’t and also said on it that I stole their four wheeler (one we gave them because it didn’t work) and unalived their dog etc. of course none of those things I did. The judge didn’t believe it mostly cause she tried saying me and my grandpa followed her on court lunch break and the officer and clerk raised their hands to say they seen us in the lobby talking to another officer the entire time so the judge knew she’s capable of lying. Their daughter is 18 now and lives with us and doesn’t stay with her mom ever. Their son won’t turn 18 til next December. I’ve been with my husband for 5 and a half years. She told us their mom made her lie and say I did things to her. Nothing ever came of it, but it’s still traumatic to me. She thought if she could get a restraining order on me that it would make my now husband leave me. Now the ex is at odds with her sister and is going to the cops saying that the son of her sister is who SA’d their daughter after telling them a couple years ago that it was me. She’s still making things up about me til this day and she’s going an hour away to my husbands aunts church and somehow has his aunt fooled that she is a changed person. She’s also dating a pastor now. My uncle is a pastor who knows of everything that has gone on and has tried warning his friend, but the friend who’s a pastor said he’s just not going to get in the middle of it which to me is ignoring the issue refusing to see that his girlfriend is still causing problems. She crashed out when me and my husband got engaged. Showed up at our house and caused a scene back in March and I got a no trespass on her. She crashed out again when we recently got married and almost refused to let their son come to the wedding. I texted her and told her that if she was doing it out of spite that’s between her and God, but she would reap what she sows. Then suddenly his son showed up and said she was letting him be there. It’s just annoying cause’ seems like she’s using religion to control the narrative.