Am I unreasonable
My friends tell me no one will ever perfectly fit what I want and if someone is good enough, that should be good enough. I disagree.
And it's not that I am totally inflexible. I am more than willing to compromise on a lot, except the vibe. Like the vibe is the most important thing for me. You can tick all the boxes on my list but if the vibe isn't where I want it to be, I'm out. Some would say this teenage behaviour and someone in their 30s shouldn't make vibes the deciding factor in looking for a partner but Idk man, that's just how I am. I refuse to spend my life with someone I'm not constantly obsessed with and heart fluttering to. The issue is, for me this isn't a reaction towards something that someone does. There's literally nothing you can do to make me feel this way about you, I either do or I don't. Hence, vibes.
Anyone's brain work the same way?