My spouse can’t stand our baby
Just one. We had twins last summer. It was rough for a while with both of them but she eventually fell in love with the easier twin. But the harder twin? She can’t stand her. Gets angry when the baby cries. Gives her nasty looks. Won’t interact with her or smile at her then complains the baby doesn’t like her. I could go on and on. It’s been the hardest experience of my life.
Today I told her she has the options of busting her ass to repair her relationship and learn to at least put on a pleasant face with the baby or we’re going to be through. She’s angry and hurt and saying I’m just like everyone else who leaves. Despite the fact I’ve been breaking myself in half doing everything for one baby and most everything for the other so that she can have time to develop a relationship with the hard baby, only for her to still say she hates her and I should have ended the pregnancy. We chose this together.
Edit: because it isn’t immediately clear from my initial post, we are a same sex couple and I carried the babies. They are both genetically mine as well.
Low effort, high reward curry