Is My Coworker Actually Into Me or Just Flirting for Fun?
I’d love a guy’s perspective on this.
I have a coworker, and over the past few months we’ve developed a very playful and flirty dynamic.
He comes to my office several times a day, teases me constantly, and always seems to find a reason to stop by and talk. We make a lot of eye contact, and there are times when we lock eyes for several seconds. I’ve also caught him staring at me a lot—sometimes so intensely that I jokingly cover my hands or look away to break the moment.
I’m usually the one who initiates physical contact. I’ll touch his arm, neck, and beard, pinch his stomach, tug on his shirt, or playfully grab his waistband. He never pulls away and usually just laughs. He also shares music with me, and seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me.
The confusing part is that he has a partner and children.
From a guy’s perspective, does this sound like genuine attraction, or is he just enjoying the attention and flirting for fun?