r/Flirting

Should I flirt with my boss

I really like my boss and I’m attracted to him. I have no idea if he has a girlfriend or not but he’s a bit older than me (36m) and I’m 28. He’s very attractive. I don’t care much about this job anymore. Should I go for it?

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u/Zestyclose_Show8653 — 3 days ago
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I feel like it hasnt clicked to me what exactly flirting is and how its done.

Ive searched it up many times and have read many things about it but it still hasnt clicked yk, because once i truly understand something i become a natural at it even without much practice and stuff.
Im 19 and im a fresher its only been 2 weeks since my classes have started and i wanna enjoy my college life ive made (girl)friends so its not like i dont know how to speak to girls but yea

Drop some ball, thanks!

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u/TargetThat4564 — 3 days ago

Flirting?

My family and I went to my husband’s friend’s camp today. We have 4 young kids ranging from age 3 to 10. My husband’s friend is divorced and has a kid who’s 10. Anyway, we went to his camp, swam, played some baseball, barbecued, fished, and swam some more. Then after he drove us back to the dock with his fishing boat because his camp is boat-access only (it’s only a 10-minute boat ride), our kids had to get out of their life jackets and change out of their bathing suits for the 1-hour car ride home. I said to my 6 year-old son: let’s change here (on the dock). Then I quickly clarified that I meant, let’s change in the van that’s parked beside the dock while daddy unloads the boat. Then my husband’s friend caught the part about changing “here” and asked,”Is mom gonna change here, too?” with a smile/chuckle. I just pretend-laughed and said,”No, mom is not going to change here, too,” with a fake smile/chuckle, caught off-guard because he hadn’t said anything like that to me the whole trip. It made me feel kind of uncomfortable, but also flattered lol…Was he flirting with me? Or just making a harmless joke?

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u/throwawayreddit507 — 4 days ago

Pls help with this girl or any advice

Ok so this girl is in my art class and shes honestly pretty and we both have very similar interests, and i wanted to ask for her number today. (We have never talked at all, and if ur asking about how ik about her interests its because of ice breakers) anyways i wanted to ask her when we were switching periods. I was really nervous. It was just me and i went up to her. ( she was by herself) and i just sold. I said
“Are you emma?”
She said, “ yeah?” ( in a confused tone)
And i said “oh ok”
And we both walked on our seperate ways. I was so mad at myself for not asking for her number and tomorrow i wanna redeem myself.

Any help pls

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u/Top-Purpose988 — 7 days ago

I want to be seductive and flirty but I don’t know how, what should I do?

I have a high drive and I don’t think guys realise that because I’m very shy. I’m not good at talking to people in general as I’m autistic so don’t know how to flirt, I’m also scared of being rejected so I kind of hold myself back.

I want to have more sex as I’ve only been with one guy, my ex but I also don’t want to do it with people who would just be having sex for the sake of it with me, I want them to be interested in me in some way. That’s why I don’t just want to hook up with random people on dating apps, I’d rather hook up with someone I know in person.

There’s a guy at work who maybe interested in me but I don’t know how to flirt with him. He touches me a lot and I’m scared to touch him back. I do eventually want to sleep with him but I just don’t know how that can happen when my social skills are bad, I’m scared of rejection and my face and body language come across as uninterested when I don’t mean to be

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u/Purple-Detective7186 — 8 days ago
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Girl I see at work likes me?

So for context I work as a FedEx delivery driver and there is this girl at a business I deliver to a couple times a week. Whenever I deliver a package to a business I have to get a signature from an employee. I have been going to this one girl almost every time I need a signature at this business mainly because she has the closest cubicle to the front door so she is often the 1st person I see. The thing is, every single time she signs the scanner pad, she signs it with her initials and then a heart. I didn't notice this at first but later I did, and every time she signs it with a heart at the end.

However I don't have very many other clues that would tell me she is into me, she is just polite , no maintaining eye contact for a long period of time, or big smiles or trying to talk to me beyond"hi" ""you too" when I tell her to have a nice day, now I probably come across as quiet and standoffish because I always try to maintain professionalism with anyone I talk to at any business unless they end up talking to me about something and opening the conversation, mostly because being a driver for FedEx I'm ALWAYS busy and in a hurry so I don't often have the time to just chat with everyone since I have 70-120 other places to deliver to that day. So I know I probably haven't necessarily made it easy for her to show other signs of her being interested in me.

So I'm just torn on if she is into me at all just based on the heart thing or if it's just something she always does whenever she writes her signature on everything. I have thought about just straight up asking her why she writes the heart on it, but I also don't want to be too "direct" and make her feel uncomfortable or caught off guard, because maybe she is into me but asking her just straight up why she writes the heart might scare her or something like that, idk. What do you guys think I should do?

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u/ConstructionDense826 — 8 days ago

Random encounter

I was at Walmart in pajamas lol this random guy came up to me and said I looked pretty I laughed caused of how I was dressed and he said he likes what he sees so I got shy and he asked to shake my hand but he tricked me and made me do a spin when he grabbed my hand and said "ouu momma your gorgeous" I got so shy I didn't expect it and then he ended up getting my number

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u/Visual_Ad7277 — 8 days ago

Is this flirting?

So I paid for my partners international round trip. I spoke to the travel agent (young girl, similar in age) in person and she said to me ‘wow maybe I’m in the wrong relationship.’ Is that flirting or just a statement?

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u/Emergency-Brain-9729 — 9 days ago

UT Austin LEADERSHIP

I'm a shy girl and a bit of a nerd. My mom took me to a leadership conference where I spoke in front of thousands of people my age. Right after my speech, a boy approached and introduced himself, and we exchanged names. I told him how unfairly I was treated at school, and he said he would kick their asses.

The next day, when my group was in the UT Austin conference room, he immediately stood up to speak and smiled directly at me. At the end of the session, he waited for me, and we began sharing our life stories. We became very close, very quickly.

Toward the end of the leadership summit, my instructor wanted to go back into the room to talk to the Harvard table about admissions, and there he was. He told my instructor how beautiful I was and kept talking about my beauty for about three minutes until I had to leave. He was very sad when I had to leave to go home.

We kept in contact, and he's very nerdy, and he loves the same things I do.

Was he flirting with me? I have never had a boyfriend. I spend all my summers doing politics and college prep LOL.

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u/BattybettyBatty — 10 days ago

How do i know with what intentions girls are looking at me with.

I’m a 19-year-old guy; I take good care of my appearance, I’m in great shape, and I’m always happy and full of positive energy.

I often go to festivals and parties where there are tons of women around. I frequently notice girls looking at me—or I can feel their eyes on me—but I really can’t tell if they’re into me or if I’m doing something weird or what. I’m not really the type to just ask, though; what if I’m wrong? Then I’d just look like the weird guy.

Does anyone know how to get a better read on this?

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u/Hefty_Geologist_2481 — 10 days ago

how to escalate flirting with an older guy?

i (30nb, more or less fem presenting) recently met an older guy (50?m), and it seems like we've hit it off, at least as friends. all of my past dating experiences have started on apps where the intent was clear, so this is kind of new territory for me. i feel like he might like me, but maybe he's hesitating because of the age difference.

i'm really enjoying the tension of flirting and not knowing what's going to happen. what are some things (questions i can ask him to steer the conversation toward more personal/intimate topics, compliments i can give him, ways i can casually touch him more) that you like to do to escalate flirtation? what are your moves? i just want to build the tension a little more before i make a more direct move. thank you in advance!!

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u/nothing4juice — 13 days ago

I never get flirted with

I never get flirted with and I travel a lot. Even in NYC, I barely even got flirted with and I heard many people say they got flirted with a lot in NYC but I was completely invisible there. Does this mean I am ugly? It’s getting me down, that no one notices me and it doesn’t help that I’ve never had a bf or been in a relationship before.

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u/rainzephyr — 13 days ago

Hand on bicep

My coworker (f) casually rested her hand on my (m) bicep. we were both at this computer that's on a counter type thing and I was working on the computer at the time. we were shoulder to shoulder.

My question is, was she flirting? Or do people do this without thinking

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u/AntonioMoore321 — 11 days ago

Flirt with older women

Hey, I’ll be starting college soon, and I’m interested in flirting with girls who are about 3–4 years older than me. Since I graduated early, I’ll probably be one of the youngest students in my class, maybe even at the university during my first couple of years. I sometimes get nervous or intimidated around older women, but I’m also really interested in getting to know them. What can I do?

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u/Ambitious-Cress-1544 — 13 days ago
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Bartender Banter

The new bartender started working at my job a few months ago and I thought he was cute from the start. A little after he started, he opened up about moving states to be with his girlfriend just for her to break up with him shortly after. He’s asked me if there’s any girls he should look out for at work but took it back because he doesn’t want to get his heart broken. Over the past month, he’s given me the middle finger, acted sassy towards me, and given me sarcasm. I don’t take it to heart and play along with him. When he first did it, I confronted him about it and he said he was joking. The second time, he quickly apologized and said he’s “sassy out of love for me” but it’s different with others. I don’t see him behaving this way with other people so I’m intrigued and confused.

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u/Curious_Arm2050 — 13 days ago