My girlfriend sent me this:
“Some guy who hit on me a while ago randomly texted me out of nowhere. I told him I’m in a relationship, and he’s honestly such a weirdo.”
How should I respond to her?
Ok, so, I'm talking with a girl I know thinks I'm attractive (our friend in common told me and I think she's great as well). So she webt in my dms, and right before I asked her out she did ! (First time it ever happened to me btw). So anyway, we talk a little more and I use this "😘" and she's like "I don't know if this is because you are french or you're flirting" so of course I say "it's the latter" (at this point I thought I screwed up so I turned down the flirting). And then she says "maybe hold off on that :)". My question is, what does this mean ? Like i'm going too fast ? Or is this a "i'm not interested" ? And how do I reply to this without being weird ? I know how to take rejection but if she asks to slow down, I genuinely have no idea of what I could just say. Thanks for reading me !
So I'm on the spectrum and social interactions are my kryptonite so I am historically terrible at realizing when someone is into me. Usually, I only find out because a friend or family member literally has to spell it out for me. But lately, a guy I work with has been doing some stuff that has me wondering if he's actually trying to flirt.
We have a really small team at my job, but I’ve noticed I'm the person he talks to the most by far. It pretty much started when he found out we share some kind of obscure interests. He got super excited and started talking to me way more, and he’s been making a lot more jokes around me lately too.
The things that really threw me off happened recently. The other day, he walked with me all the way to this cafe around the corner to get lunch. It’s a spot all of us coworkers go to all the time for a quick bite, and we usually go in groups if we have a minute. So I totally assumed he was getting food too, but he didn't buy a single thing. He literally just tagged along just to walk and talk with me.
Then, several times he waited around at the end of the day and walked with me out to my car.
To me, just chatting or being nice is regular coworker stuff, but waiting around and walking with me for no real reason feels different. Am I totally overthinking this, or does it sound like he's trying to show he likes me?