Relationship/OTS
Hello guys.
My (ex??) fiance(30m) and I went from planning a life together and some other cute stuff to..idk😭 We are dual mil, long distance 3 years. We were supposed to get married after OTS and then do join spouse. He is currently in OTS, going through depression thinking about his childhood. He said he still loves me but doesnt feel as connected anymore, yet, he doesn't know if it's because of his environment that makes him feel that way, and doesn't know if we should end things or not. This man is one of the most emotionally intelligent people I know, however, with the environment he is in, I can't help but wonder the same thing. Is it the current environment, the stress and exhaustion that come with it? I just am afraid that we may be throwing something meaningful during a rough period.
If youve been through hell and back, and anyone with insight on OTS or idk anything at all. I'm trying to get perspective from experiences. I am here because I feel like I'd get better perspective here from people who've been thru the same thing.
Please don't joke, my heart hurts like fuck😭