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Okay so I'm a first year student at SRM KTR and I'm from the core branch.

And we are cooked because hear me out, it's not that I'm going to ask how to study for CT or some stuff it's way more scary.

One of Our professors did not even complete unit 1 let alone unit 2.

The other professor is running like anything but the problem is, his english. His english is so bad that we can't understand what he is even speaking and almost no one does.

The other professor is for physics and we did not solve a single numerical. Not even one. He just rushed past theory and he assumed we knew everything and just ended the class.

Now we have only like 10 days at max. How do I even manage 😭🙏🏻

So..ithu ennoda rant post illa ( ik I'm ranting continuously and boring you guys 😅) but why not share something that might brighten your day up and ennoda life la vantha oru micro happiness ithu thaan :)

So na eppovamey oru haircut kadaiku poven ( for the past 2 years ) anga antha kada owner approm oru chinna paiyan ( in his 20's) rendu peru mattum thaan irupaanga.

Mostly antha kadai owner vela seiyamaataru and ooruku poiduvaaru so intha paiyan thaan ellamey eduthu seivaan. He is capable of every single thing like haircut, massage, shaving ellamey in fact he does it better than the owner

Oru 1.5 years munnadi naanga pesa aarambichom ( me and that paiyan ) and antha kadai owner illatha pothu thaan antha paiyan pesuvaan because the owner is too strict about not talking while working.

But, antha paiyan romba nalla paiyan, he is from tenkasi and whenever I go 99% of the time kadai owner Iruka maataru or saapada vella poiduvaaru so naanga rendu perum thaan pesuvom

Antha paiyan oda amma ku moola valarchi kammiya, avanga appa ku drinking habit Iruku and he has one younger sister who is trying for some beauty parlour or other kind of cosmetic related jobs

Yenna aachu na, one day he started to ask about studies and stuff like that and na explain pannen and he was someone who was interested in marine related jobs

His eyes used to light up whenever we talked about it and I too used to go and research what exams, what to study, where to study and stuff like that and slowly avan padika aarambichituaan

He then started to study and he used to explain to me what he studied whenever I used to go there.

Ippadiye time used to go and paatha oru naal avana aala kaanom

Enna na aachu nu owner ta keta nethi when I visited the shop yesterday

"Thambi, avanuku ship la engayo vela kedachiruku nu vela vittu ninnu 2 months aachu pa"

( I didn't visit that shop because I went to a temple to shave my head so I didn't go to the shop for around 6 months)

Antha paiyan oda number vaangunen and keta thaan theriyuthu antha paiyan ku nigeria antha maathiri pora ship la chinna etho maintaince engineer, technican mari vela kedachiruku nu sonnan

And now...Enakku romba happy because padipukey kashta patta paiyan oru chinna vazhila empathy and care and guidance kudutha naala now he is happy nu nenacha etho saathicha feeling varuthu :)

Wbu you guys have you guys inspired someone?

So..ennoda life la nadantha maraka mudiyaatha one of the na sambavam ithuthaan ithu rant nu vechukonga illa oru help offering nu vechukonga

So..oru 1 year munnadi ennoda ex Enakku romba hurt aagra maari pesi breakup pannita

Like

" I never loved you, I only liked you"

" I only needed emotional support at that time I don't feel anything"

And, idk life long paiyan azha koodathu nu ketu valantha Enakku kanla irunthu thanniye varla aana romba depress aaiten

Oru 3 days ah saapda mudiyala, morning yen da uyir oda enthirukirom nu thoniduchu.

Romba feel panni, 100 times yosichu ennoda male friend ku open up pannen but avan ooru full ah parapitaan, ella pasangalum "emo" kid nu sonnanga.

Athula innum depress aaiten...kadasila ennoda female friend ta sonnen intha maathiri na 3rd attempt pannen to off myself but yen nu therla na vituten nu sonnen

She said

" do it then, do it da why are you hesitating" and started to literally cheered

"Do it! Do it!"

Nu..I didn't know what to do and she threw a Reynolds pen at me telling me to yk kai ah kiluchu sethu porathuku...

Anniku enna punniyam senjeno..anikku saavala..but, romba easy ah eduthikutom la ? Mental health.. especially for men, it's a crisis.. athukunu girls suffer aagala nu sollala but the crisis is high for men and the no. Of men offing themselves is higher than women.

But, oru vishayam solluren..yaarachu kashta paduraanga na help pannunga, avana weak nu sollurathu, illa antha girl ah scene nu sollurathu easy but avanga shoe la irunthu paakurathu kashtam.

I would also would like to say something, yaarachu kashta padureenga na, please open up. I'm not a professional at all but atleast vent out pannum nu thonutha na..thambi, thangachi, akka,anna, friend yaara irunthalum

My DM is open..so feel free and please nyabagam vechukonga, it's not easy for everyone and

Naa iruken ungaluku :) <3

You got these kings and queens

Tbh..ennoda life la irukara one of the worst people who ended up together is my mom and my dad's mom.

Ella naalum prechana thaan, not even a single day goes by them without fighting.

The fight is not like some money issue or other serious issues.

Ivanga rendu perum podra sandai is for shallow things but it just reflects how their hate is deep and they try to prove to each other that they hate each other.

Theriyama oru kaai enga amma ku pudicha maari senja ? That's it. Ennoda paati will scream like anything and scold my mom and throw my mom's efforts by saying

"Unakku intha kudubatha pathi akkarai illa"

"You're fit for nothing"

Enga amma vum kova pattu takkunu

"Ungaluku ethuvum seiya maaten " nu vaarthaiya vitruvaanga .

Inikku oru chinna problem, nethi midnight vanthu, oruthanaga family photo anupchaanga family whatsapp group la ( he is an idiot, he sent it at 1 a.m. )

My mom thought seri naaliku kaalaila athai ( my dad's mom) ku kaamchikalam nu vittutaanga but my grandma early morning 5a.m. key vambu pesa aarambichruvaanga with her sisters and her sisters asked wether she showed the pic and that's it sandai aarambichuru..

"Why didn't you show me that family pic at 1 a.m. "

Nu ennoda paati, amma ta kekuraanga..enga amma 1 a.m. ezhupa venam nu vittutananga

Inikku, engaloda relatives vanthu irunthaanga appo ennoda paati avanga ta

" Ennoda marumaga enakaaga ethuvumey seiya maata " nu loose talk vittutaanga

But my mom is the one who organises her medicine, her bed, her coffee, cook for our family and at the same time she goes to arako nnam from Chennai Central for a job in the morning.

Enga amma kovathula ketaanga

" Na ungalukku ethuvemey seiyarathu illa la ?..inimel na ethumey seiya maaten"

And my grandma uncessairly said

" T*evudiya, nee kasu sambaraikara nu thimurula pesura, nee ethuku di ennoda pulla vazhkai la vantha "

And this word hurted my mom, and she told to my dad about this and my dad also fought against her mom

( trust me he speaks up for his wife and also he helps my mom as much as possible..enga appa company la layoff poitu Iruku so he is packed up and stressed )

Ippo my mom is crying one side saying she is going somewhere

My grandma is crying one side saying she is also leaving the home

Aana....one thing I realised...marriage should be just husband and wife. No inlaws nothing, whatever problems that happen between them let it end between husband and wife.

Their relationship is a sign that Im not going to live with my parents ( also I don't mean not taking care of them ) just keeping a new life for myself and my wife ...

I'm just worried how many husband, wife and their kids suffer due to these problems of inlSs

P.S. ennoda paati never lived with her in-laws

Ennoda life la, na 10th la oru ponna love pannen ( we both were in the same class and section ) but, I fell in love and she only accepted my love at 12th and a lot of stuff happened and eventually she told me that she is going to breakup with me cause I'm her emotional support teddy and she got the support she needed

So ippo na oru healthy aana relationship la iruken and the difference is enormous so why not help the current teens nu thoni intha post poduren :)

1. Relationship is a two way road.

Nambunga, neenga podra efforts ku avanga materiallstic ah panna venam but they MUST resiprocate the love, summa ella tharavayum neengaley Convo start pandrathu,not getting basic replies back and stuff like that is a sign that you're putting one sided efforts even though it's a mutual relationship.

2. constant reassurance

Ennoda ex ta thenamaum reassurance kuduthey irukara maari irunthuthu and it felt like she doesn't trust me and constantly questioned the love i had for her so..on the current one we both know that we won't leave eachother or atleast summaa thenamum

"Vittutu poida maatala?" Nu message panna maatom

3. relationship will get boring

Serious ah solluren, ennoda ex oda 1 month thaan relationship la irunthen and it had me like "eppo online varuva" and stuff like that so completely golden retriever energy to someone who doesn't know how to receive love appadi thaan irunchu. But, the current relationship la romba normal ah irukom we both love each other but we don't like yk you get it I guess

4. The relationship has its up days and down days

Ennoda ex, healing kedachathuku approma kalati vittutu poita but in my current relationship, we both have oru ups and downs but..loosing eachother is almost impossible

Somedays my social battery is full hers is drained and mine is hers is full and mine is drained and some fights but we don't say

"Breakup" over everything :)

5. being too controlling is wrong

Ennoda ex vanthu girls koodavey pesa koodathu, thenamum messages and phone check pandrathu and stuff were a sign that she was controlling. It's not wrong to have friends of opposite gender, it's important to know limits that's it, ennoda gf ku oruthan theriyama propose panna but that didn't make me say that she should not talk to boys, she knew what to do and she maintained the distance from that boy without me saying :)

Intha insta, intha movie, ithu ellam kaamikarathu it's just highlights friends, onnumey illa.. if me and my gf post on days where we are extremely high on love and only that then enta relationship vanthu perfect ah theriyum but...

Small imperfections are the ones which make relationships lively :))

So enna na...me and my gf have been together for the past 7 months ( LDR)..enga relationship problems nu onnu illa, we have our own days of ups and downs...but there is always an unsaid fear.

Antha unsaid fear is her family. Avaloda parents strict ah nu keteengana...well athu mattum illa.

Her family has a list of people who were arrested for money laundering and some people of her family got unnecessarily involved in black magic and other H*rmful things. They were also cases of land disputes where there were fights which turned physical.

Intha problems ellamey avaloda chitappa, chitti, athai, mama antha maari oru second level of family members pannanga.. after all of this issues..her parents isolated themselves from the rest

Now her family is just her, her big brother, her mom, her dad. Seri ivanagalachu paravala nu paatha..her dad is a drunkard. He drinks everyday, comes home and b*eats his wife, one time he be*at his wife for taking ₹50 for buying maavu to make dosas ( she even informed him before taking it ). Ennoda gf oda appa is already 54, he is battling multiple health issues like vericose veins, early stage of fatty liver or whatever that is caused due to alcohol, obesity, and he USED to smoke.

He has also be*ats my gf, her brother and his wife too.

Ennoda gf oda amma sollitaanga

"If it weren't for you two kids, na eppayo tharkula senju irupen" ..

And her mother also said

" Idk why I married this man " and both of them ( gf's father and gf's mother agreed that they are together only not to abandon the kids )

Seri, avloda brother eppadi na, he is not serious about life..he is now 29 and he is still jobless ( nothing wrong with it because job market is bad rn but effort eh poda maatran to find a job and he is careless )

Her brother also loved a girl and that girl too had feelings for her brother but they decided to breakup due to the exact condition that I said.

Ippo enna na, ennoda family is a big family.. Yes we too have problems but not this much or like this of my gf's family. Now, enga parents ku 2 gens before they were particular about caste and stuff but ippo paravala they don't see caste and stuff and there were cases where north Indian married a South Indian and stuff like that.

( I'm not saying seeing caste is good but what I'm saying is the situation has improved a lot )

But oru vishayam la enga parents particular ah irupaanga, atleast she should be from a good family that doesn't get into issues like these.

Enakku enna bayam na, her father won't accept me cause of his behaviour and being hostile...ennoda parents won't accept a family who is like soaked in this much problems and that too this much serious ones..

Enakku enna theriyanum na, what if me and my gf can't marry and be together ( even after fighting for eachother )..rendu family um ready ah Iruka maatanga I'm 100000% sure.

Ivaluku false hope kudukaranoonu oru bayam Iruku, again i will do anything to have her but I'm saying what if things go south beyond our control.

Me and my gf talked about this a lot and I accidentally told that I'm sacred about this and she stopped sharing about her family to me because she is worried that I'm getting sad over this..

But Enakku theriyum what is happening everyday..

Again I'm 1000000% NOT BLAMING my gf, she did not do this and she didn't have a chance to choose a family...

Enakku ena pandrathu nu therla :(

Inikku September 1..ennoda friend S*cide panni 3 years aachu.

Na 8th padikum bothu avan 10th padichaan, Enakku senior. North Indian guy but konjam kooda veru paadu illama pazhaganom.

We grew up together, orey school and we were about just 500m away from each other's home.

Naa 11 to 12th pogum bothu he was a drop year student. Romba periya kanavu oda irunthaan.

But..one day...I got a phone call from his mother saying "he H*nged himself"..oru nimishathula thala laam suthiduchu. Kaathu laam adachiruchu enna pandrathu nu therla..konjam neram appdiye okkanthuktu irunthen..ennoda life la first time my mind was quiet, no thoughts, no emotions nothing ...

Chinna vayasula irunthu "boys don't cry " nu ketu valantha naa kaneer kooda vida mudiyaatha paavi aaiten. Azharatha ? Eppadi nu kekuratha ? Enna nadakuthu ? Ethuvumey Puriyala ....

Konjam neram kalcuhu avan veetuku ponen...the house had a panthal outside...ulla poi paatha ellam thalaiyavirchu potu ukkanthu althukutu irunthaanga ...center of the house there was an ice box la avan udambu..appdiye...paathukutey iruken...ennala emotions kooda express panna

Mudiyala...en da pannannu keka avan illa.

Azha mudiyala ...

Veetuku vanthen, kuluchen, dress mathunen...appdiye okkanten...

Phone eduthen...WhatsApp la avan number ulla poi paathen...

"Last seen online 2:38 A.M."...well...ithuku approma avan online vara maataan...

Insta la reels anupa maatan...

Sila tharava avanoda reels laam pathutu naa seen la vitruken because I was busy. But..inikku avanoda insta innum 3 years ago anupcha Oru meme reel laye Iruku...

WhatsApp la last ah panna message 4 hours before he offed himself...

"Dei..badmition racket maranthu jennifer aunty veetla vittuta..naaliku poi eduthuko nu aunty solla sonnanga "..this was my last message

His reply was

"Ah cher I will take tomorrow"

Avlo thaan...

En kooda eppavum iruntha oru friend inikku illa..enna junior nu kooda paakama friendly ah nadathukutu best friend ah na consider panna orey aalu inniku illa..

Maybe inikku avanoda odambu elmbu kooda maari irukalam...but intha..heart Iruku la...it lives forever in the heart of others...

Kasaisiya avonda room ku ponen...athey dhoni sticker...ellamey was normal other than the ceeling fan ( it droped down while he H*ng himself )

Oru note mattum irunthuu...

" I'm sorry amma, appa..ennala padika mudiyala. I'm never the son you deserved. I was never the bf radhika (crush name ) would see ), i made everyone laugh but no one was there for me.this was not your fault.It was entirely mine ."

Avlo thaan..and some smudged ink..

He was the happiest that day..and...avan enkooda thaan spend pannan. From going to mall, to playing badmition to eating to theatre..

Almost oru 8-9 hours naanga kooda spend panni irupom.

3 years aachu...avanoda koral maranthu poga poguthu.

Avanga amma appa veedu kaalipannitu poitaanga..the house that he grew up and spent almost 18 to 19 years...amma appa naala mudiyala SO they left..

Ippo kooda Avan veedu cross pannuven..now there is a new family.. window vah paakum bothu avan thaan nyabgam varaan..he used to wait for me to come and call his name and then he will get down...

Even after 3 years I sometimes rarely get the reels he liked..and ippo antha heart popup varatha nu paakuren...I try to save those reels..

Inikku varikum na oru thuli kaneer kooda vidala..aana oru friend ah irunthu na thotuten....

Avan enta ethuvumey sollala..ellamey..avana vanthan..avana poitaan..

This wierd about world is..ethukumey wait pannathu..3 years went in a blink of an eye..

,

Ippo maybe doctor aairkalam..aagala naalum paravala..atleast avan manushan aah vachu irunthu irupaan..

Ithu ellamey ennoda thappu..enkaaga iruntha orunthan..ippo illa..avanakaaga oru tharava kooda Avan vaazhagala..

He spent his last ₹500 rupees for me and the remaining ₹100 to a random begger on the street...

3 years...100 reels...only 2 photos...but millions of memories ....ellamey pochu

Naa thaan kaaranom...please Enna maari irunththuraanrtheenga..

Lets spread awarness about mental health and maybe check your loved ones..

Even if they are loud, saturated....avangaloda silence is even louder..

Miss you da dei

So college ippo thaan start aachu and ennoda vibe ku yaarumey illa.

Cheri nu oru rendu peru en kooda okkanthanga, and Enakku verupu maiyuru ah Iruku to sit beside them

Oruthan enta kekuraan

" River water kudika safe ah ?"

Innoruthan kekuraan

"Lab coat shirt mela podanuma illa keela podanuma "

Anniku enna da naa oruthan puffs vaangitu varen nu sonnan. Puffs vaanga pona aalu 1.5 hours ah kaanom, approm paatha crowd eh illatha kadaila summa nikkraan. Enna da nu keta

"Cash only ah da "

nu solluraan. Athuku onnu cash illa nu kelabanum illana pakkathula line ah kadai thaan yengayaachu gpay pannitu urgent ah cash Venum nu sollitu vaangalam. Summa Bomma maari nikkaraan enna seiyarathu nu theriyama makku maari. Kadaisila puffs vaangavey illa.

Innoruthanuku avan phone number avanukey therla nu solluraan. Bathroom pogarathuku munnadi enta permission kekuraan as if im a the professor ( even the professors don't care ) .

Anniku oru naal canteen la saaptuku irunthen Enakku enga college suthama saapadu poda maatanga. Seriyana kanja pasanga full plate fried rice ketaley half kum kammiya thaan poduvaanga. Pakkathula okkanuthuku irunthaan. Taste paaka rendu spoon eduthukuren nu sonnan na poi hand wash pannitu varathu ulla motha fried rice um saaptutaan (120 rupees katham ) Seri avan saapudrathu tharuviya nu keta

"Pasikudhu Enakku Venum" nu saaptutaan. Avlo thaan enga amma Enakku canteen la kudutha kaasu 😭

Oruthaan library la okkanthu reels full volume la vechu sathama sirukuraan

Innoruthan odambu Seri illa, cough pannitu irunthaan. Enta pesunan, cough varuthu na Thirumbikutu irumalaam illana vaaila Kai vechu moodikutu irumaalam, moonjilaye irumuraan.

I literally felt his cough fall in my face and ippo Enakku 3 days ah cold and throat infection

Yetachu help pannunga guys ennala suthama mudiyala 😭😭

How to get away from dumbasses

A little script I wrote for myself as an aspiring short film maker.

In this world of Netflix,there is still a kid who is waiting for his summer vacations just so his dad can subscribe to the Nick channel in D2H.

In this world of videogames, there is still a kid who is begging his mom to let go of him to play cricket in that hot sun with his friends.

In this world where recipes are a search away there is still someone who is using their mom's handwritten cook book.

In this world of YouTube music and Spotify, there is someone in this world who is still using casette tapes to listen to songs.

In this world of imax and theatres there is still a kid who waits all weekend so that his favourite movie can be played at his tv channel.

In this world of couples giving silent treatment, , there is someone who is waiting to hear their partner's voice just one time.

In this world where people order combo meals, there is still a mom who packs extra food for her kid's friends.

In this world of constant voice calls and videocalls, there is still someone who waits by the mailbox to check if their loved ones sent a letter to them.

In this world where food delivery is instant, there is still a kid who waits for his dad to buy him parotta on Sundays.

In this world where there is a hotel in every street there are families which still get excited over hotels because they only get to go there during festivals or the rare days where they get a dress.

In this world of constant judging there is still someone who finds you good looking

In this world of constantly searching for IT jobs, there is still someone who wants to be a farmer.

In this world where everything is Gpay, there is still a kid saying his grandpa's name in a shop to buy something.

In this world of extreme cleanliness, there is a kid who returns to home with mud on his face after playing.

In this world of photo booths and edited photos. There is still someone who is flipping the pages of their black and white album.

In this world of couples leaving over everything there are couples who still wait for their partners to reach home just so they could eat together.

No matter how easy that technology is, old people still consider you a genius when you fix the HDMI cable.

In this world where uber, ola and rapido exsists there is still someone waiting for their bus at the bus stop just so they could get down in the station.

In this world where excitement no longer exists there is still a kid out there excited even months before his birthday is near.

In this world of expensive toys there are still kids who use toothpaste boxes and soap boxes as toys.

In this world of ordering outside, there is still someone who is waiting to get back home and eat the rasam made by their mother.

No matter what, no matter how much, no matter how undeniably fast the time is, these people still live and they are still happy.

So, why rush in this world?

Let's just all take a deep breath in and just be ourselves :)

So, i recently joined the gym and it's kind of scary. Every single guy there looks like he can deadlift a truck and I struggle to lift 5kgs in a row.

I tried to socialise with them but idk they are just too busy ( can't blame them ) yk I was just looking for a friend to go to the gym or make some gym bros there but so far it's useless..

I'm being drowned with the trainers'personal coaching stuff. I'm not blaming them or something but, they charge 10K a month ( which is not affordable in my home ) i gently say no and that's it they stop teaching me exercises, they don't properly make my training card ( idk if this is serious but according to me not writing the number of reps and sets for a beginner is wrong ) , every trainer H*ates you because you didn't opt for their personal coaching.

Sometimes even though I'm currently doing reps on a machine, they sometimes ask me to get up and make their client sit on that machine, they don't even ask whether me and the client can do it alternatively.

But unfortunately I paid the full annual fee and now I'm struggling. Maybe gym is not for me

What do you guys think about this 2026 regulations. Many are saying that the PYQ's you guys used are now not valid and useless I'm kind of worried about that.

Can you guys please tell me is this something to worry about or nah ?

Guys oru 1 month ah gym ku poitu iruken but Enakku improvements eh therla...I need someone who can guide me.

I need to loose weight and get muscles

First, this post is not intended to hurt anyone's religious beliefs or their customs, I'm just experiencing what Im feeling and I have full respect for your beliefs. So adika varatheenga.

All names are fake because I don't want to disclose personal names here

So..something big happened in my life today, and it may be slightly disturbing but I'm keeping the NSFW tag anyways.

Na chinna vayasula Perungalathur la poranthu valanthen appo enga pakkathu veetla oru paati irunthaanga. She goes by the name Meenakshi.

Chinna vayasula avanga veetuku thaan poi vilayduven, sometimes I eat in their homes and I never felt that "pakkathu veedu" vibe with her home. Sila naal laam i have been there forever.

So here is what happened, ennoda paati (kamala ) and this pakkathu veetu paati ( meenakshi) are so close, even before I was born my parents were in perengalthur in that same some and so did meenakshi paati so romba close aana bonding irunthuthu and one of it which tied them together is

"Beliefs"

Now enna na, ennoda paatiyum and meenakshi paatiyum used to go to temple every single day, and by what I mean, I mean so much.

Like early morning temple

Afternoon temple

Evening abhishekam temple

Night last abhishekam temple

Sometimes both of them volunteered to clean the temple in the evenings to keep it clean.

But, na 1st STD padikum bothu my dad got a job in a different place in tamilnadu so we left. But my grandma ( kamala ) and my pakkathu veetu paati ( meenakshi) were in contact through the phone and even after moving to a different place, both of them used to be so spiritual.

But..today...I'm disheartened to say..that Meenakshi paati is no more. Yes, enna sontha peran maari pathukuta paati thavaritaanga..

Now you may ask "Ada bro, D*eth is a part of life " , yes definitely but..how she D*ed is hurting me.

Today avanga velakku etha poirukaanga, appo thee kuchi saree la pattu she started to B*rn.

Hall la ellarum TV paakunraanga ndra naala she closed saami room door and lighted it and no one heard her Screams

When they smelled something burning they found out she was literally burnt (3rd degree burns ) and the worst part..she was alive.

Hospital la poi..doctor paathutu, admit aanathuku approma thaan..after fighting for her life for like more than 3 hours..avanga thavarunaanga.

Now..my question is, life la full ah kadavul kadavul nu kumdututu iruntha kadavul yen avanga d*eath ah painless ah vekkala ?

( D*eath is inevitable ik,but why painfully )

And ennoda paati, konjam kooda kucham illama onnu sonnanga

"Ellamey pona jenmathula panna paavam"

How can someone get punished for doing something in their previous life ( which is still unproven). Someone can get punished only if they know what mistake they had made.

Next..

"Her intentions were not pure to god"

Are we serious right now ? We told god is all forgiving figure yet, can't the god just forgive her for her intentions ? ( Although I know she never had any bad intentions )

Why..just why...I still have my childhood videos where meenakshi paati has me on her lap while I watched chutti TV. She spent rupees 3K ( at the 2007 period itself ) for me to play toys eventhough all of her kids are settled in different states.

Why god. Why.

I'm sorry if I had hurted your religious beliefs, I'm in an emotional state right now and just remember it was never my intention.

I once again apologise and I'm not only referring to any one god or religion. I'm just sharing my experience.

Rest in peace paati 🙏🏻

Families are literally the worst kind of people you can find.

Like ennoda family la relatives varaanga na avangloda ennoda family theva illama mathavanga pathi gossip pannuvananga like how she is how he is and stuff..

One of the most funniest things that I have heard is

"Yeah, he is allowing his wife whatever she wants to wear "

As if the wife is obligated to wear whatever her husband says and stuff.

One time they bad mouth about how men shouldn't cook, shouldn't clean and one time I was washing dishes for my mom and they said

"Ladies irukum bothu pasanga paathitam theka koodathu "

And one time one of my relatives said

" Paiyan 50 LPA earn pannanum, sonthama rendu Nelam irukanum, car vechu irukanum, individual house with minimum 3 bedrooms Irukanum"

Funny thing is...that girl is also in the same mindset thinking

"If i marry a rich guy, I will be rich too "

Hence that girl didn't even go to college, stopped her education in 12th, and now she wants a foreign mapla

( Again she stopped it by choice and she wants her man to provide everything)

The scarcity of females in what I call

The marriage market, has lead to men accept women based on a sole factor

"She must be a woman" , they stopped having standards too.

The worst thing and the funniest one is.. ennoda family, relatives kelambanthuku approma will gossip and badmouth about them.

So at the end everybody hates everybody everyone is just wearing a fake mask, pretending to like them.

These guys talking about Genz is the worst thing 🤣

Konja months ku munnadi I underwent a breakup.

She said she wanted to study and focus on career, she said she never wanted to be in a relationship.

Romba kashtam aaiduchu manasu and antha time la I didn't know how to reply so manasu odanju okay okay nu type panni vittuten.

Few days ago enakku message varathu

"Hi" nu from her. Then I replied with a question mark.

Athu ava "summa thaan" appadi nu message potuta.

Veri aaiduchu.. puduchu nalla ketuten like

"Why did you get into a relationship when you clearly didn't want one, even after breakup I moved on from you. What do you need now ?"

She replied

"Enakku emotional support theva pattichu athu naala thaan relationship la irunthen, but I didn't have genuine feelings for you sorry."

For which i replied

" Relationship is much more than just emotional support, there is loyalty, love, care,trust etc.. if you wanted emotional support at that time you could have asked your friends, school mental health councillors, why me ? I have waited for you to say yes to our relationship for 2 years and once you said yes I was at cloud nine and you broke up in just a month saying "i didn't want to be in one " , now you're hurting me even more by saying you just wanted emotional support "

She is trying to justify that she did that because she was lonely, and I was the only one who gave care to her.

Why is it always that I need to always to give and never recive something ?

I'm noticing this pattern with my friends, they call me only if they need something, now my ex also needed something and she took that and left me.

I have never expected anything in return for the deeds I do but athukunu ippadiya ?

Am I a use and throw tissue or something ?

Hi seniors !!

I'm a first year student and I enrolled myself in Btech EEE at SRM KTR I just have a few doubts.

1. How hard is it to score 9+ cgpa from the second year.

( I heard that using PYQ's is enough for the first year but what's the strategy for the second year )

2. Under this new 2026 regulation, I heard that PYQs are useless and we are the fresh batch to test new questions. Is that true ?

3. is doing UG research worth it ?

4. Which club is best to join if I'm interested in traction motors and control systems ?

5. how are the faculties from second year ?

6. what are the skills that I need to learn

7. HOW to score 9+ cgpa in EEE ?

any tips other than these questions I asked are also welcome :))

If any seniors are kind enough and comfortable enough to have their DMS open please let me know i have many doubts :))

Thanks a lot in advance :)

Have a great and a blessed day