30 [F4M] Delhi/Anywhere - Looking for a long term partner/Marriage
Hey there!
So here’s a small intro to where I am headed and see whether you can fit in your jigsaw with mine. (+20 points to you if you get the reference)
I am a data analyst by profession, earning well enough but after a lot of job switches, understanding industries, I realized - I don’t feel any kind of competitiveness when it comes to work, I don’t gaf if I say anything to my manager that will ruin my ratings but I won’t be rude as that comes naturally to me (I usually tone myself down talking to elders) but then few tasks done badly because I was not feeling like giving all my efforts happens a lot and is only increasing as the days are passing.
I had simple thought on my mind when I was one of those that wanted to climb the ladder of success asap - Foreign trips, luxury, taking care of my loved ones (affording basics and taking care was met pretty initially in my career).
But now? I am done. In this loop where I have to give my 90% to get JUST 10% part with family that i love and friends and with my own self - too less for me.
Therefore, in near future I might be out there jobless, trying to build a business of my own somewhere in the mountains, this is not a dream anymore, this is a well discussed plan in motion.
It will either provide more than I currenly get and I can still afford the foreign shit. OR i will earn just enough to live a decent life and I am fine with both.
I will work, live, and breathe there for the rest of my life.
So this will surely filter out most people that have their lives planned in Bengaluru, Mumbai, or any other such city.
I am childfree and I don’t think it will change. Might adopt if required. You can surely try to change my mind later, it can work! but don’t get mad if it doesn’t.
And the bigger filter here - Don’t downplay anything I say hoping that “she is just saying that now, I can handle it.” Nope.
If I tell “I don’t like so and so, just tell me if you are so and so.” and you downplay this or hide things that I should know.
I could be the rudest, bluntest woman that you will ever face. The only kind of men that have handled me best in the past are the ones that were real, never mansplained, and listened and took my thoughts/points seriously.
Be honest, be respectful, playing around will give you the worst BT of your life. And ofcourse I will be giving the same energy back.
I am theist. Atheists can be my good friends but not a partner.
I do smoke rarely and drink occasionally.
I am not looking for a fling or a hookup here so please refrain from sending DM if that is all you have to offer.
If you do check all these points, DM and we will see if we vibe.