r/SFWr4rIndia

Born and brought up in Bangalore, and looking to connect with people here, irrespective of gender. Brownie points if you're a kannadiga or speak kannada.

I’m someone who enjoys good banter, playful conversations, and laughing over the most random things. I love dancing, travelling, fashion, board games, painting, and those long midnight drives with a great playlist playing in the background.

Always happy to meet fun, genuine people and see where the conversation goes :)

After finishing my studies and starting my career in London, I’ve officially moved to Gurgaon to chase some incredible new professional opportunities. While my family is in Bombay, I’ve taken the leap into total independence, moving into a flat with my best friends right in the heart of the city.

I’m currently balancing my main career with my passion for **modeling**, all while learning to navigate this fast-paced new chapter. My days are a mix of**:** Building my career and becoming fully self-reliant. Hosting flat parties, shopping sprees, and exploring every hidden coffee gem Gurgaon has to offer. Monthly trips to see my parents in Delhi for some much-needed downtime.

I’m doing my best to build a life I love, staying grounded but dreaming big. **If you’ve made a similar move or are navigating your own "big city" transition, let’s connect and chat!**

Since you're exploring Gurgaon, have you found any favorite spots in CyberHub, One Horizon or 32nd Avenue yet, or are you still in the "trial and error" phase of finding the best coffee?

22 [F4R] Online just short term discussion :>

Hoping to talk to someone who can't sleep as well

My interests are music, books, games and random things on the internet.

I want to mostly talk on reddit if that's okay with you and not lose the magic of anonymity 💜

My one simple ask is, please don't use chat gpt to respond to text and please be funny. If I'm not vibing with you I'll tell you so you don't have to wonder what happened:)

Hey 👋

35M here. Average guy, cozy build, the kind who'll actually remember the thing you mentioned casually two days ago.

I want to be upfront about something, because it keeps happening and I think a lot of you get it too.

I've had a few conversations recently that felt genuinely good - the slow kind, where you're not just exchanging facts about yourself but actually sharing something. We'd swap pictures, talk daily for a bit and then... nothing. Account gone. Or just silence. No explanation, no goodbye.

And look - I'm not angry about it. People have their reasons. Life is complicated. But yaar, it does sting a little when something that felt real just disappears overnight.

So I'm being honest about what I'm actually looking for, because vague posts get vague results: I want someone to stick around. Not forever on day one - just, you know, someone who's actually here.

A bit about me:

- Introverted, but genuinely warm once we've settled into a rhythm

- I like slow conversations more than rapid-fire texting - depth over speed

- I won't ghost you. Seriously. If I need space I'll say so.

What I'm hoping for:

Someone who's also a little tired of connections that evaporate. Who wants to talk about actual life - emotions, the weird 2am thoughts, whatever's been sitting heavy or light on your mind lately.

If you've been on the other side of this too - good chat, then poof - maybe we already understand each other a little.

Drop a comment or DM with something real. Doesn't have to be much. Just something that's actually you.

Let's not disappear on each other. ❤️

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Hello all, I am here looking for a good partner in crime, to share and talk about what's happening around me and the world. I am a literature student and introvert with very complicated relationships in the past. So i have decided to take it really slow. I can cook and bake . I'm not into younger men. If you are above 27 feel free to text.

So, who am I?

Someone who has gotten tired with the subpar dates he's been on. Someone trying to take efforts to make genuine connections. Someone who is emotionally available, understands consent and is a good listener.
Someone who still has hope for old-school love but is quite spontaneous. Someone who nerds out about board games, badminton, architecture and heritage.

Someone who travels but cannot decide if he wants to hit the mountains or the beaches next. Someone who can take you to solid 10/10 places, all you need to pick is the cuisine. Someone who loves to drive a lot (especially in the rain), is not deterred by this city's traffic, and be it in a club or in the car prefers Indian music first, English next. Someone who is ambitious af with occasional struggle with motivation but always comes through at the end.

This gives a ball park sketch of who I am, if you feel that you resonate with some or all of these, I would love to see you in my DM's.

And, who am I looking for ideally?

Someone who is empathetic and who's biggest green flags are good communication and efforts. Someone who appreciates my dad, dark, dirty, lame and nerdy sense of humour. Someone who is not averse to pets, I do not mind if you are scared. Someone who is ambitious too and has her own goals. That's pretty much about it.

Hello there, I hope your weekend was good. Just about alright for me so can't complain much. Nice and quiet all to myself just chilling

Now just drinking up some whiskey and smoking up, chilling quietly. Just looking to gossip about random stuff so if you got something interesting, we could talk about it.

Feel free

What I want from this- Let's go with the flow and see.

My relationship status- In a long distance relationship

Minimum requirement- Respect for privacy, Ability to hold a conversation, Good Looks ( even without filters)

Why did I mention "Good Looks " above- Because that is the only thing verifiable initially and has a pull to connect. No other reason. Please don't think I am shallow. And I know looks are subjective but if u "look good" u know that. And good looks doesn't necessarily mean very gym toned body.

About Me- Masters Student, usually shy but started to open up recently.

Going through hard times right now, looking for a friend to talk about life in general. I like reading manhwas and watching kdrama and anime.

Currently watching "Vinland Saga", I am sure I am not the target audience for it.

I am an introvert and like staying at home more than going out.

I can talk about multitude of topics.

Looking for friends nothing romantic or otherwise.

I don't know how much do I have to type.

Currently hanging out at IGI Terminal 3 waiting for my flight to Hanoi. If anyone else is on this route or just killing time at the terminal, hit me up! Down for a quick coffee or just a chat before we board.

We could grab a quick coffee (or a snack at the food court), share some travel itineraries, or swap recommendations

Indian origin, raised outside India, currently figuring out life back here one cultural confusion at a time.

I miss connection, the kind that gets momentarily addictive..Does that make sense? Like, tell someone your random thoughts during the day, stay up too late talking about nothing and everything, and slowly become part of each other’s everyday life.

Looking for someone 35+, Indian origin, based anywhere in the world. Intelligent, emotionally available, funny and honest. Empathy and mutual respect are important to me.

I like warmth. Intensity. Affection. People who are a little romantic and a little cheesy without being embarrassed by it. The kind of connection that feels soft and exciting at the same time.

Not trying to talk to a hundred people. Honestly hoping one person just feels right.

Send me a voice note if you think we’d connect. I tend to like people I can hear before I can explain why.

I must repeat the 300 words thing again so here we go: im left leaning, I don't shy away from politics, I'm into art, singing, academia, self reflection, outer reflection, reflection the song from Mulan, tennis, gym, oh and I guess studying ???

300 words aren't over. I love dosas preferably w vegetables and gunbpowders. I like ok I'm done

Hi. I’m at that slightly suspicious stage in life where I have my shit mostly together, but I’m also questioning everything. Moved back to India recently and honestly just looking for a friend to begin with.

I read (actual books, not just captions), I work out regularly 🫣 partly for health, partly so I can justify snacks and bad decisions. I enjoy painting and cooking.

I’m not here for instant intensity or forced “where is this going” conversations on day two. I’m more into the slow burn, start with good conversation, build a genuine friendship, and if it turns into something more, great. If not, at least we didn’t waste each other’s time pretending.

What I’m looking for:
Someone witty without trying too hard, curious about the world, kind without making it a personality trait, and emotionally aware enough to hold a real conversation. If you can make me laugh and teach me something new, you’re already. If you have a great voice you’re already winning brownie points. I like an eloquent sweet talker.

Let’s see if we can make talking to a stranger on the internet feel less like a gamble and more like a good decision.

Hi. I’m 29, emotionally expressive, slightly chaotic, and trying to romanticize life instead of overthinking it all the time.

I love sports, yoga, makeup, dressing up nicely even if I’m only going out to buy coffee, long late-night conversations, soft music, and people who make life feel lighter.

Some days I’m incredibly calm and grounded, other days my blood pressure decides to turn me into an emotional weather system for no reason whatsoever 😭 so if I randomly go from philosopher to dramatic poet in 20 minutes… now you know.

I’m not looking for instant attachment or performative flirting. I like slow conversations that naturally become a safe space. The kind where you start sharing random stories, daily moods, weird thoughts, playlists, voice notes, and suddenly talking to that person becomes part of your routine.

I appreciate emotionally intelligent people. Men who are gentle without being passive, funny without trying too hard, and affectionate in subtle ways. If you’re someone who can communicate properly, has depth, and knows how to make a woman feel emotionally seen, you already stand out.

Bonus points if you like sports, have a comforting voice, can tolerate mood swings with patience, and know that sometimes dressing up beautifully is basically therapy.

Let’s skip the exhausting games and see if two strangers can become something meaningful, slowly 🌸

ONLY MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP!! 😭🙏🏻

And also please be from jaipur, varanasi or Delhi

an introduction

19, from Jaipur.

This is who I am.

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ENFP / INFP  ·  4w5  ·  she/her

in plain terms

I'm a 19-year-old from Jaipur who spends most of her time writing, reading, drawing, and thinking , not really in that order. I'm intense about the things I care about and I tend to care about a lot of things very deeply. I notice details most people walk past and then go home and write about them for an hour.

I'm soft by nature but not shallow. Shy in new spaces, genuinely warm once comfortable. I feel things hard and I don't apologize for it.

Appearance

I am someone who is curvy in all the right ways. I am 5'5" with short, wavy hair and slightly big, round eyes with two moles on the left one, and another mole near my lips. I have small, doll-like lips.

What i am looking for:

I am looking for a serious relationship..someone with whom I can spend the rest of my life. I get really attached, and deeply so, when someone is right for me. I want someone who can handle and reciprocate my utmost depth and intensity. Someone with whom I can spend every day doing normal things, yet have it still be filled with emotional depth.

I really dislike people who are avoidant or go cold during tough times, and I absolutely cannot stand people who are unclear or undecided about their intentions. I want someone who is sure about what they want... transparent, honest, and direct

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the inner world

I'm deeply spiritual in a way I keep very private. I practice Druidism and green witchcraft, not for power or ritual performance, but because I genuinely believe every tree, plant, and creature has a soul. I believe in animism. Nature isn't a backdrop to me; it's a living thing I want to form a real bond with, under both sun and moon.

I'm also devoted to Maa Kali and Krishna. My spirituality holds contradictions and I'm fine with that. In the outside world I engage rationally, even skeptically , I think religion should be personal and humble, not performed. What I believe stays between me and the earth.

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writing & journals

I journal obsessively..I have about six or seven notebooks, each with a different purpose: a main journal, a nature journal, a grimoire, a commonplace book, a daily diary, a philosophy and art history notebook, a creative dump journal, a daily planner. Writing is how I process everything. Poetry especially. If something moves me , a painting, a line of prose, a tree I passed, I sit with it and write until I understand why.

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art, literature & learning

I'm heavily into art history like movements, painters, the philosophy behind the work, not just the aesthetics. I sketch and draw too, both traditional and digital. I read classical literature deeply rather than widely, paying attention to individual lines, sitting with them. Same with philosophy and poetry. I'm starting to explore mythology, folklore, and history properly now. I want to understand things, not just know them.

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music, media & the darker tastes

My music is heavy and emotional: Linkin Park, Rammstein, alt and punk. I also listen to disturbing vocaloid like Maretu, Kikuo... the kind that sits in an uncanny uncomfortable place. That thread runs through most of what I love: The Walten Files is one of my favourite horror series, and I'm drawn to things in media and books that are strange, unsettling, or just a little off. Soft outside, dark tastes.

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everything else

I love makeup but I keep it soft and earthy... nothing loud, just something that feels like me. I'm feminine in a way that's natural, not constructed.

I'm shy with new people but I'm not uninterested in them. I actually want real friendships built around genuine things..ideas, art, nature, books. Not small talk.

P.s

I want to mention something I do care about my partner looks too, like i don't want to date Plus size people or chubby and even those gym bros i just want a guy who's decent, immaculate yet firm and grounded, lean you can say that

Hey everyone,

Well Tomorrow is my birthday, 11th of May. I'm willing to take a drive somewhere on the outskirts of bangalore. Will be out from 3PM to 1AM midnight.

My plan is to enjoy a sunset view at a spot(Nandi Hills or Sunset beside Bettakotte lake watching flights take off & land, I'm confused). Then drive all the way down to bidadi - Filter Cafe (approx a 2 hours 30 mins Drive)

And probably end with a late night movie - (probably Micheal 10:30pm show at Kanakpura forum coz I have gift coupons of PVR only).

I would like to have a company for all these. So if you find this interesting, then DM me also if you have your birthday tomorrow and wish to celebrate with me.

Open for suggestions to make this interesting as well.

About me -

I'm turning 28 tomorrow, roots from Bihar, mostly introvert trying to socialize and, meet more people. Presently working in a corporate IT project management. love to go on drives. Keep my interest in bikes, cars(only manuals), tech, businesses, real estate and finance (yeah life is catching up).

Hey guys lets discuss how fuck all the situation is.. or maybe we can talk about the good things that might have happened in your life.. but lets be honest isn't that quite rare? And when that happens we already have someone to share it with..

So I'm inviting people who just want to rant or share something that they shouldn't have done.. lets connect and talk whatever the fuck we like..

I want to work on a college project but i am feeling asleep so I want a partner for accountability and for push so i should not sleep and yaa if things go well then we can talk about a lot more but for now i simply want someone who can be with me

We can set rules like a good timer after that we can tell what we both study and some more good talks by this at least we can pull a good all nighter and we can work efficiently too

I’m convinced adulthood is just repeatedly switching between “I need to fix my life” and “it is what it is.” And yet ending up procrastinating every moment.

Anyway, hi. I’m 27, born and raised in Bangalore, currently surviving corporate life with caffeine, nap and very unrealistic hopes from RCB every season. Supporting that team has genuinely taught me patience, emotional resilience, and how to stare blankly at walls after a collapse.

At this age, every family function feels like a press conference. Nobody asks how you are anymore. It’s just:
“So… marriage?”

Uh I’m still deciding what to eat for dinner, it’s so freaking hard to choose which restaurant is good before even thinking what to eat at all😭

I do have a pretty solid friend circle, but adulthood slowly nerfed the whole thing. Some moved abroad, some disappeared into work, some got into relationships and now reply once every leap year. So here I am trying to meet new people before I become one of those uncles whose only hobby is forwarding “good morning” messages on WhatsApp.

As for hobbies — I’m into sitcoms, anime, gym, badminton, traveling, hikes, ragebaiting and irritating my friends at times and going down extremely questionable YouTube rabbit holes at 2 AM. One minute I’m watching comedy clips, next minute I’m deeply invested in a guy exploring an abandoned hospital or probably some old war bunkers.

I also watch camping videos despite knowing very well I’d last approximately 17 minutes in actual wilderness before complaining about insects, network issues, and missing Zomato.

Gym is another big thing for me. Not in the “fitness influencer” way though. More in the “lift weights to mentally recover from Excel sheets and . Fridays are especially dangerous because if my gym buddy skips, my motivation also mysteriously vanishes.

I used to read a lot too, but social media absolutely destroyed my attention span. Now I read three pages and suddenly remember I need to check a completely unnecessary notification. I have turned into a kind of person who turns every weird pics of my friends into funny WhatsApp stickers.

Honestly just looking for chill conversations and good people. Preferably from Bangalore because maybe someday we can actually meetup(maybe) and constantly complain about Bangalore traffic, but even if you aren’t a Bangalorean still my dm is up, because I do need friends irrespective of where you from so that I can be proud I do have friends in other states😢

If you’re funny, easygoing, chronically online, emotionally damaged by work or simply avoiding work right now… we’ll probably get along.