r/SFWr4rIndia

I can trauma dump a bit while playing chess and you can do that as well. I would love to know your life story and anything about you. Anyone who likes playing chess is my friend without an introduction.

We can play other games too and exchange reels.

Reading is one of my other hobbies and I am reading the order of time rn, dm me if you're also reading it or just tell me about any other book you're reading. Anything is fine, anything but savita bhabhi.

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I am highly sensitive person who feels deeply and intensely i am deep feeler i not using this sub but I am using currently want to try out let see I am. Preparing for therapist i want to do phd in psychology i love philosophy literature art healing i m spiritual please only highly sensitive person dm me please only highly sensitive person,only highly sensitive person, only highly sensitive person,only highly sensitive person,not having any content,only highly sensitive person,only highly sensitive person

Talking about everything and anything, comfortable silences, poetic conversation, depth, unconditional respect and affection, honesty and kindness.

I am somebody who values intelligence and quick-witted humour. I imagine spending my life without worrying about how my next sentence would be framed for the person in front of me. I’m a complete baddie when it comes to relationships and prefer my man to be absolute gentleman and chivalrous to the core.

I’m Marwadi and I’d like to be associated with somebody from similar background as community is important for my family and intellectual and emotional compatibility is important for me. I wish to lead a life full of adventures and romance, watch things together and make lots of love. I’m hardcore into nerds and tech boiz who have a fixer and caretaker attitude towards their women.

I mean there’s a lot I can write but this is the basic :3

29M (atheist-ex muslim) based out of Bangalore. Looking for a non religious (atheist) muslim. I love to live my life freely without the constraints of religion or societal pressure. If you are someone who loves to lead a peaceful (🌱) life, wouldn't mind casual drinking and smoking and love to travel, then hit me up.

Hello beautiful people of India! Im not from India but would like to have Indian friends. I became interested when I watched an Indian action movie. From then, I was so hooked and cant stop talking about it! 😂 I hope to meet friendly Indian people who I can learn more about Indian culture, food, movies etc. Also looking forward to move there in the future. 😉

Imagine me and you, in the future, old. Probably tired from life, in the countryside. Just wanting to spend the remaining time we have for each other. I paint, you do your hobby, we toast, kiss.

We dance, have fun, grow old together, just the two of us.

I daydream a lot. But yeah.

Isn't that lovely?

Hi! I'm Max, 28, from the Philippines. I have a pretty bad luck with dating due to my bipolar disorder. I seem to be pretty too much for the people I date. But I try. I don't know maybe I just haven't found my man yet. I hope this is not an issue with you. I am fond with the indian culture and how colorful it is.

Something about me is that I'm very liberated in a sense. Open minded as well. I can be your property if you know what I mean. I am also very needy and needs constant reasssurance.

As for my interests, I'm a resident DJ, paint, write, make jewelry, and occasionally dabble in leatherwork. I also practice martial arts. I'm probably a jack of all trades with way too many hobbies, but music is the one constant in my life.

About you: someone who resonates with my post and is older than me. Someone whose mom would accept me as liberated as I have tattoos all over my body and piercings. I am also child-free, non-veg, and I smoke and drink socially. If you are okay with these. Let me know.

To break the ice, send me a song you would dance with me, I might just add it to my playlist! If I like it. Plus points to you.

As an exchange, I'll send you photos of mine in a saree! I just did a photoshoot earlier. Replies that are AI generated or low effort wont be entertained.

Hey there! I work from home 5 days per week and my team is spread out globally. So I don't really have anyone to chat with throughout my day. Would love to find someone cool to chit chat and shoot the shit with daily as we both work (although you working is not a requirement). I'm in the PST time zone, west coast Canada.

Some things about me...

- I have two cats

- enjoy road trips and travelling

- binge watching a TV show or movie on a weekend night beats going out to party

- favorite alcohol would be beer

- NHL is my professional sports league of choice to watch

- I like to cook and bake too

- I try to go to the gym before work Mondays through friday

If looks matter...

- 5'9

- white

- bearded

- brown hair

- pretty average physique

Very sad today. My sadness knows no bounds!

Very sad today. My sadness knows no bounds!

I don’t really know how to explain it, and honestly, I’m not sure I want to. Some days just feel heavier than others, and today happens to be one of those days. Nothing specific needs to be said, nothing particular needs to be understood. It’s simply one of those moments when everything feels a little quieter, a little colder, and somehow much more difficult than it should.

I’m trying to carry on as usual, doing the ordinary things, answering when I need to, smiling when I have to, and pretending that everything is perfectly fine. But somewhere underneath all of that, there’s a strange heaviness that refuses to leave.

Maybe it will pass soon. Maybe tomorrow will feel different. I hope it does.

For now, though, I think I’ll just let myself be sad without trying too hard to find a reason for it. Not every feeling needs an explanation. Sometimes you just have to sit with it, let the day pass, and hope that the weight becomes a little lighter with time.

So yes, I’m very sad today. My sadness knows no bounds. And that’s all I really have to say about it.

As the title says, Im someone who has tried everything in the spectrum and realised one thing only.

I can only be with women who I’m consumed by. And while I love someone who is confident about their looks, what really matters to me is a certain level of wit that can push mine too.

I love it when someone can crack dark jokes. Talk about their truth in a way that could break someone. Make people laugh out loud with their insane humour.

And whenever these things come together, I automatically fall for them.. I love it when women outwit everyone around them.

But that’s just me and a realisation that gives clarity to who I want to be with next.

PS: I know it’s a terrible book. And no, I’m not looking for Rakhi Sawant.

I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people beyond the usual small talk. I've always found myself drawn to conversations that explore people, experiences, dreams, perspectives, personal growth, human nature and all the little things that make us who we are.

I enjoy talking about life, psychology, ambitions, creativity, books, culture, travel, philosophical questions, and mythical thoughts. I love hearing how different people think what they've learned through their experiences and what matters most to them. A good conversation is one where both people feel comfortable being themselves without judgment.

Hi everyone!

I don't know if Reddit is where people find their person, but I figured I'd throw this little bottle into the ocean and see what happens. Trying my luck here for the first time, so here goes absolutely nothing. Or hopefully something.

I’m 27F and I’m here because I’d like to meet someone. I am not looking for a casual situationship, a “let’s see where it goes” that goes nowhere, or someone who disappears after 3 days of interesting conversation leaving me wondering where it went wrong.

So now about me, I used to be a proper extrovert. Then I grew older, gained some wisdom, and discovered the revolutionary concept that I don't actually have to talk to everyone. So now I am somewhere between introvert and extrovert. Basically, a moody ambivert who talks a lot or replies 'hmm' if not interested. There is no in between. I can be perfectly happy by myself, but put me around someone I’m comfortable with and whose vibe matches mine and suddenly I have stories, opinions, terrible jokes, random observations and absolutely no idea when to stop talking.

Apparently I have a good sense of humour. I believe this because people have told me so, but also because I regularly laugh at my own jokes, decisions, shenanigans and occasional disasters. So at the very least, you’ll never have to wonder whether I’m entertaining myself. I already am.

I am a huge reader and an even bigger book buyer. There is a significant difference between those two hobbies and my bank account knows it while crying at the corner.

I love movies and shows too. I used to be the person who would binge an entire season overnight and wake up looking like I had personally fought the final boss. But age has humbled me. Now I occasionally choose beauty sleep over finding out what happens in episode 7. I had a character development, apparently.

I write poems, stories and shayaris too. But mostly when I’m either in love or catastrophically heartbroken. So if I ever start writing something about you, congratulations or condolences. There is no third option.

I am not particularly into living my entire life online. I’d much rather actually live it. Like I read a book, watch a movie, go for a walk, cook something, have a long conversation, discover some weird little place, or sit somewhere peacefully doing absolutely nothing. I am pretty much content with being myself.

Now, what am I looking for?

A smart, nerdy guy with a high EQ.

Also, one important thing: I prefer someone older than me. 30+ only, please. That's simply the age range I find myself most comfortable and compatible with.

Basically someone kind. Emotionally intelligent. Curious. Someone who can communicate instead of expecting me to decode three-word replies like they're ancient Sanskrit.

Someone who can make me laugh, but also knows when to be serious. Someone I can talk nonsense with for two hours and then suddenly have a 2 AM conversation about life, love, death, philosophy, why humans are the way they are, or some completely unnecessary question that neither of us will ever resolve.

You don't have to be the loudest person in the room. You don't have to be conventionally perfect. You don't even have to have your entire life figured out. Just be genuine. Be someone who is comfortable being vulnerable, who knows how to listen, who has a life and interests of his own, and who still gets excited about discovering something new.

And please have a personality.

I don't need a six-pack. I need someone who can recommend me a book, argue passionately about a movie, tolerate my manga obsession, laugh at my nonsense.

Please don't just send me “hi” or “hey.”

Tell me about yourself. Tell me your favourite movie, the last book you loved, an anime you'll defend with your life, something you're currently obsessed with, or even just something in this post that made you think, “Oh, she's like me.”

Give me something I can actually respond to.

Because if we're potentially going to spend hours talking and getting to know each other, we might as well start with a little curiosity.

So if you made it this far, introduce yourself properly.

I’m a reader.

Give me a plot.

I’ve been debating whether to make one of these posts for a while, but I figured there’s no harm in putting myself out there and seeing who I meet.

I’m 20F from India, currently studying law, and I’m very much the sort of person who can spend an unreasonable amount of time talking about books, history, psychology, mythology, random rabbit holes, or some completely stupid thing that happened during my day. I read a lot, I write, I paint occasionally, and I’m generally curious about pretty much everything.

I’m not really looking for something casual or a conversation that dies after three days. I’d like to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and see where it goes naturally. Friendship first is absolutely fine honestly, probably preferable. I think the best relationships are built when you actually like each other as people before trying to force anything romantic.

I’m an ambivert, so I can be ridiculously talkative once I’m comfortable, but I’m also perfectly happy sitting around having a quiet conversation with someone. I value emotional maturity, kindness, curiosity, good communication, and being able to actually talk about things beyond “wyd”.

I’m also very much a fan of slow-burn connections. Getting to know someone gradually, having increasingly ridiculous conversations, sharing little things about our days, becoming comfortable enough to tell each other absolutely everything that sort of thing.

I’m completely open to long distance. I don’t think geography automatically makes a connection less meaningful, and if we genuinely click, I’m happy to see where it takes us.

A few things that matter to me: I’m looking for something genuine and monogamous, not casual, not an FWB arrangement and definitely not something that immediately becomes sexual. I’d like someone who is emotionally available and actually interested in building something rather than just looking for temporary attention.

And yes, I know Reddit dating posts can be a bit of a lottery. I’m not expecting to find my soulmate in my DMs tonight. I’d just like to meet someone interesting and see what happens.

If you decide to message me, tell me a little about yourself your age, where you’re from, what you do, something you’re currently obsessed with, and maybe one completely random fact about you.

Please don't just send “hey”. Give me something to work with.

Prefer calls rather than texting.
I really enjoy listening to people talk about something they are passionate about.
Would appreciate it if you could give a small introduction instead of the usual hey .
What else am I supposed to say here.Three hundred words? Seriously? Ok
Reminds me of the school essays .Phew

I skim through the posts here once in a while and unlike the majority of audience here who's looking for a romantic relationship, partner or someone to fill their void. I'm not seeking any of that.

Do you get the feeling that talking to strangers is easy? I do! I find it liberating and sometimes refreshing to have a conversation on random topics without a filter ( sfw ofcourse). To speak or rather text without giving much thought on being judged.Bonus when you find certain intellectual compatibility.

A little something about me :

I'm slightly nerdy and minimalistic. Strangely my yt feed is filled with food vlogs and mukbangs even when I got very little appetite. I'm a dead meat during the week days and rarely turn alive on some random weekend.

Offlate I've been taking a lot of interest is yoga and spirituality. I read many things under the sun but not for entertainment. So, I can try having a conversation on any geeky stuff. Um, that's all I can think of.

All the love boys, married men, despos, please spare me. Life's already tough.Don't make me delete this account.

Yeah that's pretty much. If you feel like maybe I can have a random conversation once in a while with this girl, drop by a text which is beyond hi/ hello. Else, appreciate your energy for reaching the end of this post.

Hello everyone, I am a 26F from Kolkata. I like writing, singing, listening to music, audio stories, reading, watching movies, Netflix, learning foreign languages, playing mobile games, drawing, etc. I am a writer and I like writing poems and short stories. I have recently completed my post graduate diploma. I also struggle with mental health a bit at times.

My favorite movies: Annabelle Creation, Inception, When Marnie Was There, My Neighbor Totoro, etc.

My favorite music artists: Ed Sheeran, Taylor Swift, One Direction, Maroon 5, etc.

My favorite novels: The Midnight Library, And Then There Were None, Life Is What You Make It, etc.

I am looking for someone special with whom I can chat comfortably, I want an emotional connection more than anything. We can talk about life, our interests, movies, music, etc. I want someone good-looking, caring, understanding and a bit fun to talk to. These are my requirements.

So, if that sounds good and if you're interested, feel free to DM me! Cheers!

Uhh, hi. Apparently this is what adults do now when they want to make friends, so here I am.

I’m 27, based in Bangalore, and work night shifts, which means my sleep schedule is basically nonexistent. I’m awake when most people are asleep and asleep when everyone else is busy being productive. It’s nice and peaceful until it gets a little too quiet.

I’m looking to meet people around 24–30 who are also awake at odd hours, or just enjoy random, low-pressure conversations. Nothing too serious or forced — just looking for people I actually enjoy talking to.

We can talk about pretty much anything — life in Bangalore, food, work, random 3 AM thoughts, things that annoy us, things that make no sense, or whatever weird topic somehow turns into a two-hour conversation.

Bonus points if you’re from Mangalore/Udupi. There’s something about meeting someone from back home that makes the internet feel slightly less like the internet.

If you’re also awake at ridiculous hours, say hi. We probably have similar sleep problems anyway.

PS: I reply slowly sometimes. Not ghosting, just occasionally disappearing into my own life for a bit.

PPS: Please don’t just send “Hi.” Give me something to work with. A bad joke, a random fact, an unpopular opinion, or tell me something mildly embarrassing about yourself. Anything is better than making us both stare at “hi” wondering what happens next.

Note: I posted something similar a couple of months ago and figured I’d give it another shot. Still looking, still hoping to meet some cool people.

Hey there!

So here’s a small intro to where I am headed and see whether you can fit in your jigsaw with mine. (+20 points to you if you get the reference)

I am a data analyst by profession, earning well enough but after a lot of job switches, understanding industries, I realized - I don’t feel any kind of competitiveness when it comes to work, I don’t gaf if I say anything to my manager that will ruin my ratings but I won’t be rude as that comes naturally to me (I usually tone myself down talking to elders) but then few tasks done badly because I was not feeling like giving all my efforts happens a lot and is only increasing as the days are passing.

I had simple thought on my mind when I was one of those that wanted to climb the ladder of success asap - Foreign trips, luxury, taking care of my loved ones (affording basics and taking care was met pretty initially in my career).

But now? I am done. In this loop where I have to give my 90% to get JUST 10% part with family that i love and friends and with my own self - too less for me.

Therefore, in near future I might be out there jobless, trying to build a business of my own somewhere in the mountains, this is not a dream anymore, this is a well discussed plan in motion.

It will either provide more than I currenly get and I can still afford the foreign shit. OR i will earn just enough to live a decent life and I am fine with both.

I will work, live, and breathe there for the rest of my life.

So this will surely filter out most people that have their lives planned in Bengaluru, Mumbai, or any other such city.

2. I am childfree and I don’t think it will change. Might adopt if required. You can surely try to change my mind later, it can work! but don’t get mad if it doesn’t.

3. And the bigger filter here - Don’t downplay anything I say hoping that “she is just saying that now, I can handle it.” Nope.

If I tell “I don’t like so and so, just tell me if you are so and so.” and you downplay this or hide things that I should know.

I could be the rudest, bluntest woman that you will ever face. The only kind of men that have handled me best in the past are the ones that were real, never mansplained, and listened and took my thoughts/points seriously.

Be honest, be respectful, playing around will give you the worst BT of your life. And ofcourse I will be giving the same energy back.

4. I am theist. Atheists can be my good friends but not a partner.

5. I do smoke rarely and drink occasionally.

6. I am not looking for a fling or a hookup here so please refrain from sending DM if that is all you have to offer.

If you do check all these points, DM and we will see if we vibe.

Hi , I am looking for a long term friendship .Someone to know better over time and see how things go. Right now I am not looking more than a friendship and someone to talk long term. I am not looking to switch from reddit and just to find a friend here and see how things goes.

I’m passionate about music, politics, and sports, and I love being outdoors. Whether it’s a walk in nature, a lively discussion, or a relaxed day exploring new places, I enjoy it all.

I’m hoping to connect with someone older than me and who brings a sense of maturity, discretion, and mutual respect to the this relationship . If you’re someone who who values good conversation, and shared experiences. I would like to start something off Reddit before changing the platforms. Please DM with some intro about yourself.

Hi hi! 👋🏻

I’m 30, work in tech and spend most of my weekdays coding, working, overthinking things and then pretending I’m not tired 😂. I also genuinely enjoy meeting and chatting with new people and spending time with family. I have a Master’s from abroad and have spent more than half a decade abroad and have travelled quite a bit, so I’ve had the chance to experience different cultures and ways of life outside the usual Indian bubble. I’d say I’m pretty open-minded, curious and comfortable talking to all kinds of people ✨

Outside work, I’m very much a girly girl 💅🏻 I LOVE makeup, skincare, shopping, dressing up and spending an unreasonable amount of time deciding what to wear when I’m literally going somewhere for coffee 😂. I also love good conversations, discovering new places, random plans, food, travelling and people who can make me laugh. I can be mature when required but I’m also very capable of being ridiculously childish with the right person 🙈

I’m independent, affectionate, fairly confident and definitely opinionated 😌 I really value kindness, emotional maturity, good communication and someone who has their own personality/life/interests. I like people who can have serious conversations one minute and then send me the dumbest meme they’ve ever seen the next 😂 I’m not really interested in drama, mind games or people who think being emotionally unavailable is a personality trait.

And because apparently turning 30 unlocks a completely unnecessary DLC pack 😂 I now have back pain, random calf pain and occasionally my blood pressure decides to keep things interesting. So if you’re also in your 30s and your body has started betraying you for no apparent reason hello, fellow survivor 🤝🏻😂

If you’re going to message me, please give me something more than “hey” or “hi” 🙃 Tell me a little about yourself what you do, hobbies, places you’ve travelled, your weird interests, political opinions, something you’re currently obsessed with, literally anything. I’d much rather have a real conversation than exchange “how are you?” for 47 messages 😂😂

I know I’ve used a lot of emoticons and I love ❤️ it as it makes the reader smile 😊

Hello.

Busy middle aged woman here with sudden pockets of free time that I would like to spend on going places. I enjoy doing things solo but some days I worry about being out and about late at night waiting for cabs in this rainy weather. Just to alleviate this, I would enjoy some low key friendly company in Chennai.

My profile might suggest otherwise, but I have zero intention of indulging in anything NSFW so don't even bother reaching out if you hope this leads anywhere physical.

If you are interested, please reply with your intro and let me kno what you are looking for.