u/MolassesPresent4300

Hello need some advice from some fellow cancers. Recently got into a fight with my partner. He’s been distant often ignoring my messages. We are long distance, I’ve been complaining to him that he just doesn’t put in the effort in anymore, he swears up and down he’s gonna do something sweet for me like a romantic gesture kinda and he never does it. He blames it on his poor memory but I think that’s bullshit because if he really wanted to he would at least write it down somewhere to remember. He always asks me what he should do or what I wanna do every single time and honestly I’m tired of playing relationship tutor trying to guide him on how to be a man. Should I just keep trying or just let him go.