u/MolyofHermes

Good day gentlemen. Hope you are doing well. I just wanted to put a post in this group following a few experiences I have had over the last few days. I am sure a few of you have had the same experience. I have had personal experience with this, and reports from others trying to recover. There are chasers and predators lurking around recovery groups who are trying to take advantage of “sissies” under the pretext of “wanting to help or guide them.” I can understand now why I haven’t received responses to some of my messages when reaching out to help others, because there is all kinds of distrust and madness around here unfortunately.

What has made me incredibly angry is that these men are doing this to people on recovery groups. To me, preying on confused and vulnerable men trying to change, or find the space and sanctuary to gather their sanity, is the absolute definition of cowardice, selfishness, and abuse. Please be cautious gentlemen🙏 let’s look out for each other and confront or report anyone that’s playing games. You don’t need some piece of shit blinded by his own sickness, contributing to confusing you even more by rationalising or encouraging your addiction. Someone that’s trying to get off on his own desires at the expense of others well-being through exploitation and manipulation is despicable behaviour. I brutally confronted a guy on this yesterday, and he didn’t believe he was doing anything wrong; and wouldn’t hear it. They don’t care for your well-being. Be discerning gents. Be cautious of the vipers.

A good guiding principle is asking if they themselves are recovering from sissy porn. If they aren’t, what business do they have on this group? and what experience do they have to help you? Think about it, some random, a guy who’s never cross dressed, struggled with sissy porn, or sexual confusion, just wants to “be there for you and help you, or help you find your true self?” How altruistic of him. What do you think he wants from you?

If a dom wants to help you or thinks he can help (even under the guise of he wants to recover from his own addiction or understand himself and sissies better - which is the cover story I was told yesterday-) - think about this logically, how can he really help you? Do you really think a dom, who is just as sick as we are, wants his primary obsession and fetish to recover and turn away from the image of his main source of gratification? 99 percent of doms are guilty of some form of sadistic behaviour and don’t know even know how sick they are, regardless of what they say. Many get off on manipulation and abuse, so really think twice before even opening up the door to them when you’re trying to recover. Please be cautious.

My perspective, if the individual trying to help you has not suffered from sissy porn addiction themselves and has recovered (or is at least trying to recover), or are individuals or programs that have objective perspective, qualifications, and a code of ethical practices, they have no business trying to help you with problems as big as identity and sexuality. They might cause more harm, don’t have the sanity to help you, and most likely have ulterior motives. The only person outside of the experience of someone who has themselves battled with sissy porn and can relate, is a therapist, a 12 Step fellowship, an independent recovery program, or a counsellor. Stay safe gentlemen. Have a great weekend, and take care🙏

Good day gentlemen. I hope you are all keeping well and fighting on strong in your own recoveries. What I am about to post is incredibly controversial, but out of conscience, I am pushed to do so, because I believe it is the truth. I do not doubt that there are trans or homosexual people, and I have nothing against them, what I will argue however is that this rampant rise and spike in the numbers, consciousness of society, the push by medicine, media, and psychology, and confusion in hundreds of thousands of men over their sexuality, to me indicates that this is not a natural trend.

I recommend that you watch “Mark Passio - The Satanic Epi-Eugenics agenda.” Watch parts 1 and 2. This is not easy information to take in, you will HAVE to be willing to change your point of view to even touch sides with some of this information, but it is the best information I have come across to deconstruct what trends are taking place in the world at the moment. Especially the information on Tavistock (accused of social engineering), whose clinic was shut down for the unethical behaviour of putting children on puberty blockers (with minimal evidence to back it up), Mark’s information seems to be consistent. It is not hard to see there is an agenda and these are not natural trends that we’re facing. Essentially what this comes down to is a war on the human mind, to weaken men and society as a whole, it is a form of social engineering. Make of it what you will, and decide for yourself. You can laugh at it, generally, truth is unbelievable. But I urge you to keep an open mind and watch this, it is at least worth considering. This information for me, has completely changed my view on what is happening to many men suffering from this stuff, and I believe it is the truth. Much love brothers and take care.

Edit: even Reddit flagged this post and gave my account a warning for “hate speech against vulnerable groups” if that’s not further reason to look into the information I have provided, than I don’t know what is. Take care brothers.

Good day my brothers. From my own experience,
one of the greatest tools I have discovered in the path of change and healing - and is generally one of the foundational principles of recovering from addiction - is to begin practicing unselfishness and love for your fellow man. Ask anyone in a 12 Step Fellowship; any religion or ancient philosophy, love and service is at the heart of all of them. Love can bring great healing for yourself, but more so, you realise you are capable of doing great good for another by giving of yourself. Love comes from service to others and thinking of their needs. I urge you to think how many thousands of your fallen brothers are in the hole of madness or despair with this thing or even just life in general. Think of them and help them however you can. Stop being so selfish and making everything about yourself. You will paradoxically find strength and healing for yourself in your own journey. Much love my brothers. If anyone needs someone to talk to, DM me.

I would also recommend looking up Manly P Hall - The redemptive power of love lecture 6. It is of immense help.

Good day gentlemen. Wishing you strength and hope today. There are two books that have been of immense help to me.

The first is: Iron John - By Robert Bly
The second is: King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover by Dr. Robert Moore

The books cover male psychology in depth, and illustrates why many men in the world are currently in crisis and are falling off the rails. It also gives immense insight into why one would turn to something such as sissy pornography, and more importantly, the insight and direction needed to rebuild your own psyche and find a better path and direction in life. Wishing you strength and love brothers👌 take care.