u/Money_Sandwich_5350

is it just me orrrrrr

soooo it’s pretty obvious rina likes a certain pattern in her books.
but what bugs me to death is the amount of anal play in her books 💀 (not considering the MM books)
like why is it that ALLLLLL male characters kinda manipulates the females into anal?
and why is it that ‘it hurts but i like it cuz i like the pain of it’?
i’ve been through a lot of her books since i started and the only female character who was different from the rest is Teal.
she specifically said a big no no to anal and Ronan respected that!
idk is it because the females think it’s a big step into trusting their partners?
or they really think pain is okay?
i’m genuinely curious and want to hear what your thoughts are!

(disclaimer: Royal Elite, LoG ((only God of Pain and God of Ruin is left, but i’m halfway through Pain)), Truths&Lies were read as well Kiss the Villain)

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u/Money_Sandwich_5350 — 1 day ago

what can i do?

hello everyone!
i’m a 23 year old female, with a history of anal fissure and external hemorrhoid and constipation/diarrhea. in the last couple of months (since january to be exact), i experience occasional glute soreness before/after bowel movements.
my stools vary between hard and soft, but since having my fissure i try to take in more fiber and drink more water.
my main issue right now is the glute pain that i can’t put anywhere. it’s not hot when i touch that part of my body so it’s not inflamed and it’s not sharp pain, just sore. dull.
it travels from my glutes up to my hips.
this glute pain appeared when i dealt with a month long UTI back in January and since then, it comes and goes.
i tried warm bath and pelvic floor therapy (tbh not constantly) but it just eases the soreness, not ends it altogether.
i’m in the subs for anal fissures and hemorrhoids, but no one seems to talk about glute pain, so i came to ask here.
thank you for reading and letting me share my concerns.

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u/Money_Sandwich_5350 — 10 days ago

Hi everyone! I am a 23-year-old female. Yesterday, I had a bowel movement after skipping a day (I’m usually regular), and my stool was quite hard. I felt a slight pain while passing it due to the straining, but there was no bleeding at all.
While bathing, I noticed that the area just inside the anal opening is quite tender to the touch. It’s still not bleeding. I checked with a mirror and saw a purple discoloration; I think I might have bruised the area from the pressure when I passed the BM.
My question is: could this just be a bruise, or is it likely a hemorrhoid? I am not in pain currently. I had an external hemorrhoid last summer, but it cleared up without any issues.

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u/Money_Sandwich_5350 — 20 days ago

hi everyone! ☺️

i am very new to the whole Rinaverse.

my question is, in your honest opinion, which books are deffo okay to skip?

i already finished with the Royal Elite series, and ONG i loved it so much, but i skipped over Jonathan King’s books cuz i despise that guy lol.

i also finished with the All the Lies & All the Truths duets, and honestly? it wasn’t giving. for me, it was all over the place and couldn’t really grasp Asher, he was so….something.

because of this, i’m not really tempted to even start Rai Sokolov & Kyle Hunter’s books. 😭

so please, i would like to read some honest thoughts.

thank you!🥰

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u/Money_Sandwich_5350 — 23 days ago