35M4F Looking for my best friend, adventure partner, and hopefully something long-term
Hi everyone from the East Bay Area. Dating apps have started feeling like a never-ending cycle of small talk, so I figured I’d give this a shot. I’m looking for a genuine connection that can hopefully grow into a long-term relationship.
I’m 35, Korean, and currently in the Bay Area. I’m open to meeting women anywhere from 21-40. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if we’re both serious about getting to know each other.
A little about me:
I grew up in South Korea until I was 11 before moving to the U.S. Since then, I’ve somehow gone from becoming a pharmacist to deciding that wasn’t enough chaos and am now finishing my MBA. I love healthcare, business, startups, and I’m always the person asking, “There has to be a better way to do this.”
I take my career seriously, but it doesn’t define me. I work hard so I can enjoy life outside of work.
Things that I enjoy the most is…
Traveling. I’ve visited 18 countries and I’m always planning the next trip. Some of my favorites have been South Korea, Colombia, Mexico, and Italy. My bucket list still includes safari in Africa and seeing the Northern Lights.
Finding amazing food. Hole-in-the-wall restaurants usually beat fancy places in my book. Korean BBQ, Ethiopian, sushi, ramen… honestly I’m happy trying almost anything.
Road trips that start with “Let’s just drive for a few hours and see what we find.”
Staying active. I enjoy running, hiking, lifting, basketball, pickleball, and I’m always down to try a new sport even if I’m terrible at it.
Watching soccer (Tottenham fan), basketball, and pretty much any big sporting event.
Movies, comedy shows, karaoke, and the occasional competitive board game night.
Dogs. I have two and they’re probably convinced they own me.
Friends would probably describe me as curious, optimistic, sarcastic in the right moments, and the guy who’s always organizing trips or convincing everyone to try something new. I like having deep conversations one minute and arguing about the best late-night food the next.
I am looking for…
Someone kind and emotionally mature.
Curious about the world and enjoys learning.
Can laugh at herself and doesn’t take life too seriously.
Wants a long-term relationship and eventually a family.
Enjoys both spontaneous adventures and quiet nights at home.
Values honesty, communication, and mutual respect.
You definitely don’t need to share all of my hobbies. I actually think relationships are more interesting when we introduce each other to new things.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading. Tell me your favorite country you’ve visited, your go-to comfort food, or the most random hobby you’ve picked up recently. I’d love to hear your story too 😊