u/Most-Teaching-2258

as the title states I’m getting slightly bored of this niche side of the internet. I made a post recently stating my addiction to this and how it’s hard for me to quit. Yesterday I went browsing on discord again to find dommes to edge myself into relapsing.

I didn’t do any sends and tbh I just got to a point where I can see how boring this is at least from my perspective. Okay I meet a beautiful domme who I fantasise about and want to see more of her, okay so I send her some money, I finally bust a nut after hours and hours of edging and it all feels the same.

Even though every domme is someone different I really think most of the interactions are starting to get boring and too similar. I think this is gonna help me put myself off findom as a whole, it’s like going to a theme park and going on 1 specific ride, you know what to expect, you know what’s going to happen yet you keep lining up to go again…why?

Idk if I’m just manipulating myself into thinking this is boring to get my way out, but I really am starting to see how repetitive it really is.

Hello so I am 19 years old and been into this crap for a while, more so femdom and that aspect of it but then it lead to findom. I have now spent more in the last week or 2 then I have in total since I found this about a year and a half ago.

Now here’s the thing, I do this because I’m lonely and I acknowledge that. The annoying part is I have messaged with dommes on discord who genuinely seem nice and I love talking to them but after I send and get off to them I leave. This is because I know it can’t be healthy to actually build a bond with a domme online. Part of me thinks I will keep going back but I’m just so done with the post clarity of it all and going into debt on my bank account.

I need some kind of advice or at least some hope, I want to download discord again and start talking to the dommes I’ve been sending money to but I know I will regret it when the post clarity comes…it’s been 2 days since I’ve indulged in any form of this content