6 months of hell mattress shopping, a few weeks of mattress modding (finished product)

6 months of hell mattress shopping, a few weeks of mattress modding (finished product)

A few months ago, the mattress hunt broke me and I went a bit mad asking for help.

Out of like 150 posts there was this one guy who recommended building my own mattress, but he kind of got drowned out in a sea of noise. Buy as time goes by and I'm looking and researching and dying inside, I just say fuck it. Fuck the entire mattress industry. I'll do it. I'll build my own mattress, and if I build a bad one, I can at least sleep well on my hatred for all the fuckers who made this so difficult.

After a ton of research, I was prepared to really get into the nitty gritty of it all. I ordered coils because I sleep hot and have always slept on hybrids anyway, so I was relatively certain I wanted them in the final build. I then ordered 3 inches of firm dunlop, 3 inches of medium dunlop, and an inch of firm dunlop. Why this specific combination? Literally no specific reason. The plan was to play around with it, get a feel for it, and then use that information to go forward. I could mix in different materials once I knew what the base bed felt like.

!!! I finished off the process by ordering a 15 inch deep mattress encasement. But I had a specific reason for wanting this goal. My frame is flush with a 15" mattress. I wouldn't allow myself to consider it when mattress shopping, but if I am building this thing, I could put hdf under the coils to fill whatever height I am missing. If you are doing this, maybe hold on off on this? !!!

Anyway, I unwrapped the coils and laid them on the floor. Then I unwrapped the latex and began trying various patterns. Soft on medium on firm. Firm on medium on soft. A layer below the coils. A layer left out. And here's the thing that I am almost certain I am in the minority in thinking: Beaides a few distinct variations... everything just kind of felt fine. Slightly different, yes. But fine. So that's what I used and this is what I did:

I added slats that were 2 inches apart
1" firm dunlop latex (44 ILD) SoL
8" quad coils (15.5 gage) Pocket Spring
3" medium dunlop latex (30 ILD) SoL
3" soft dunlop latex (20 ILD) SoL
15" DIY stretch cover from Pocket Spring Store
(I also DIYed a bedjet to go along with this)
[(I'm quite proud of the little jet engine looking motherfucker] (https://imgur.com/a/19onptq)
And done.

And there you go. Is it overkill? I dunno, but its comfy. Can I even feel the coils under all that latex? I dunno, but it's comfy. Surely the latex under the coils a waste? I dunno, but I had it on hand and it saves me fom returning it and having to buy the HDF. And its comfy.

This mattress cost just under 2k and I am happy. I am finally happy.

u/MrNameless — 3 days ago
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The rabbit hole has devoured me for 3 months straight. Please, just tell me what the fuck to buy.

The digging never ends.
I shop online, but it doesn't end.
I shop in person, but it doesn't end.
I do so much research, but it just doesn't end.

Current mattress: Purple 4, bought 4 years ago.
Reason for changing: It's developed back-destroying sag, they won't warranty.
Do I still like purple: Yes. But a bed that cost 4k should last longer than 4 years.

Budget? Unlimited with a caveat. I do not understand why there are Goddamn horsehair and wool mattresses. There must be simply be diminishing returns at some point. So whatever that point is, is my budget. 2k - 6k?

Size? King for two people. Side sleepers. 5'10", 190lbs. 5'3" 120 lbs

Do we sleep hot? I am a furnace. My wife is an icicle. I tend to win any thermo-related decisions. I am not proud of this.

Firmness preference? I like it hard, she likes it soft. We meet in the middle.

Split king? She anaconda cuddles and doesn't want to live in a crack at night. I respect it.

Materials? Open to literally anything. I do not care. I am losing my mind.

What felt nice? I have no idea. Memory foam felt nice. Things with 2" Latex felt nice. The other 1000 materials listed in their various configurations felt nice.

It all feels fine in the moment.

So please... Just tell me what to pick.

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u/MrNameless — 3 months ago

I didn't think anything of it then, still don't now. I know nothing about currency, and they're not the first weird $1 bill I've came across. So I figured stuff cant be too special.

They came straight from the bank in a bundle of 100 new $1s. But they were the only ones like that, that I caught. I was feeding it into a machine without paying too much attention. It was by sheer happenstance that I noticed these.

But they were interesting enough to put away for 5 years. Recently they just randomly came across my mind again and I thought I'd share.

Edit - From the back: ​https://imgur.com/a/WJk6FdC

u/MrNameless — 4 months ago