There's something I just can't understand.
I haven't been involved in the BDSM scene for very long, I'd say about four years. I still have a lot to learn and understand. I've had very good experiences online and especially in person, and over time I've met more people who practice it or are interested in it. My experiences have mostly been with submissives, and I've also made friends with other Doms, mostly male, but no female Doms. My question here is: At what point or for what reason do female Doms ask for money or some kind of "tribute" or economic dominance? I'm not judging anyone, much less criticizing; this all comes from genuine doubt. I'm a Dom, and it's never crossed my mind to take advantage of or do that with any of my subs. I suppose it's because the roles here are reversed. I know about this from forums, conversations, and someone else who mentioned it, but it's something I just can't understand.