u/MuchDirector1384

Thodi thodi fatni shuru ho gyi hai

My female friends are getting married this year or next year at max (love marriages), adulting has hit me now, fear of arranged marriage and not finding the right person, anyone else in the same boat??

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u/MuchDirector1384 — 22 days ago

Hi, I’m 26F, living alone in a metro city and working full-time. Lately I’ve been feeling really lonely and honestly just… empty.

I don’t know if this is an age thing or just adulting hitting harder, but it’s been getting to me. My life is mostly office, coming back home, and repeating the same routine (being sad after work and letting every emotion get me). I do have friends, but everyone’s busy with their own lives, so most of the time it’s just me.

I’ve also been through a couple of heartbreaks, and even though I’ve moved on in a practical sense, emotionally it still feels like something is missing. There’s this constant feeling of wanting emotional support or just having someone there… like a partner maybe.

I really want to ask other girls 25+ who are single, how are you dealing with this phase? Especially managing work, living alone, and everything that comes with it.

Not looking for generic “stay busy” advice, just honestly, how does it feel for you and what actually helps? Looking for genuine female support.

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u/MuchDirector1384 — 2 months ago

25F …. Feeling lost, depressed and idk what… lag raha tha finally found my soulmate, my perfect man until vo or buri tarah se kaat k chala gya and I still don’t know the reason…

Bs mujhe ab or rona nahi hai, tired really… kuch badiya sa suna do to lighten up my mood, be it something jisse mujhe apna pain chota lage or any stupid bakchodi to make me laugh… here to meet genuine people (friends)

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u/MuchDirector1384 — 2 months ago

Someone I genuinely liked and was seeing for the prospect of marriage ghosted me in the worst way possible 🙂

Have been crying my lungs out, yeah i really liked him and since again chutiya katt gya hai toh bohot ganda rona aa raha hai, kinda feel my heart aching too

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u/MuchDirector1384 — 2 months ago

25F here.. maybe to some I am overreacting but for the first time in my life I have myself started liking a guy (previous relationships only loved them seeing their love for me), but first time I have grown liking towards a guy, and he honestly seemed all nice and good, I still am not sure if he is not interested or what exactly is there, he seems a bit complicated, has anxiety issues and past traumas (i know that’s a red flag for many), but we were talking really good during the start and felt like a genuine mutual growing connection, we seemed like a dream partner for each other, until he just started being distant for no reason, he would only text once a day or so and initially I did not bother much, thought to give space n all but now I literally feel so hurt, its really like my heart is been broken and I can feel it physically, earlier in my relationships or situationships all these guys had left me like that, no particular reasons and maybe that is a fear I always carried and this guy seemed different.. i tried to understand him, be empathetic but looks like that was at the cost of my own mental health, i text him and he replies very very late that gets my anxiety more on top…. Just dk how to deal w it now… we were in talking stage but both wanted to build it but it did not build yet so i think a lot before saying anything too

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u/MuchDirector1384 — 2 months ago