help with passing
Warning: talks of weight, hair loss.
20, FTM. i’m pre t. i haven’t even started transitioning yet. i mean, i’ve been out for 6 years, but i still go to work looking like a girl and with my dead name. it’s cus i’ve made some promise to myself to finally lose weight before i transition physically, cus my weight was ruining my health and has for a while.
i’m losing weight, exercising. i’m not quite to the weight i promised myself to then start T. this might sound strange, but this is the only way of disciplining myself to being healthy that’s working.
i’m just worried, because i have a very feminine face. like. small nose, lips. like.. big eyes. and my eyes are low on my forehead so i don’t even think a jawline would help. i have a small jaw, too. i have a big forehead. basically just round faced and feminine. i’m worried that when i start T, i’m just going to look (obvious???). even if i suddenly got big and muscular, still.
what are some passing tips? like, haircuts or anything. another thing, i already have very thin hair. when i start t im just going to look balding. what haircut would even help that.
sorry if this is triggering to anyone else going through this. i feel stuck and like i’ll never pass.