FTM Struggling

Hi I am a first time mom. I currently on maternity leave and with the long wait to approve unemployment I find myself struggling to pay my bills. It takes over a month to get approved and then weeks to even see anything. I hate to come on here and ask for money but anything would be nice to take care of my bills. My Cash App is $kayswe12. Anything would be appreciated

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u/Muted_Camera_2787 — 3 days ago

FTM Struggling

Hi I am a first time mom. I currently on maternity leave and with the long wait to approve unemployment I find myself struggling to pay my bills. It takes over a month to get approved and then weeks to even see anything. I hate to come on here and ask for money but anything would be nice to take care of my bills. My Cash App is $kayswe12. Anything would be appreciated

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u/Muted_Camera_2787 — 4 days ago

Relationship struggles

I’m 21 years old and my bf is 23 years old we just had our first baby over a week ago and I just so over him. He took a week off from work to spend time with the baby and now that he back at work it like he feels like he doesn’t have to anything. At night I the one waking up with the baby, unless I absolutely need his help then I wake him up. The problem starts before he goes to work and after he comes home. Usually the baby wakes up at 5 am, I would leave the room go into the living room feed her and rock her back to sleep and stay in the living room. One time she wasn’t going back to sleep and I had to used the bathroom really bad and do number 2. I woke him just to hold the baby. I have stitches down there and after doing number 2 I have to make sure I clean really good down there. I heard the baby getting fussy and that when I started hearing the text messages. He text me yo then text me you really taking your sweet ass time. I text him you know I have to clean myself. After that I took the baby and didn’t talk to him, after he left for work he wanna apologize saying I forgot it a whole process, even though I already explained it to him. Before he goes to work he gets up and play the game. When I start calling his name and asking for help he has a attitude and be sucking his teeth, then when I call him out on it he want to say he don’t have one. Now when he gets home I don’t bother him. I let him take a shower, eats, smokes and play the game without disturbing him. I wait until the baby goes to sleep to have him watching her while playing the game. While she sleeping I pumping, cleaning, and trying to take a shower. My mom also been here helping so usually when I want to take a shower I give her to my mom. On the short occasions maybe two times he had her while she was awake and the min she gets fussy he start having an attitude with me to hurry up and get her. I know this is long but I really needed to vent to someone because I can’t talk to him without there being an argument or him making me feel crazy for feeling the way I do.

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u/Muted_Camera_2787 — 2 months ago