Am i being to sensitive?
Hello guys, so i 34 female have extremely bad social skills and i've met this guy, 31 he always says all the right things, promises me to help with some things, like moving a stove and a couch, so i can get the new house sorted.
We haven't really been in a relationship for long, which is making me doubt myself that much more.
The problem is, he always say i will come tomorrow, and when he's here we will do it tomorrow and he just always keeps blowing me off, i get hurt and sad everytime.
Should i see this as a red flag or should i keep giving him chances, if it's because he's just in a bad period?
He told me, when i picked him up, yesterday evening that he had a bad period and we would talk about it, when we got to the house.
When we finally got to the house i asked him, he said lets talk about it in ten minutes.
The only explanation, after still pressing him for an answer, was just that he had a fight with his ex wife about his kids and just really did not feel like talking with anyone.
I just feel like thats a very weird answer, especially thinking of how long it took me to get that out of him, maybe he was just buying time to try and figure out what to say?
Am i to insecure and suspicious and are overreacting to this situation?