Anyone else have difficulty expressing love?
I am a pretty hardwired ISTJ-T, and I have a boyfriend who is incredibly emotional and sensitive, where I am very logical and rational; we tend to clash a lot due to this, but we get over it. I often find myself speaking to him like a robot, or have been called Spock before as an affectionate joke because of my blunt eloquence.
I am always viewing things as problems to analyze and fix, and find the concept of love to be terrifying and foreign, however he always convinces me that I do love him and care, I just show it in different ways. But I always feel so insecure and that my overtly-logical Te mind refuses to view or feel this concept, as it feels it is a waste of time and a possible threat to my deeply-guarded sensitive Fi core.
Anyone else relate to this?