u/NYCFLRmarriage

Hi, I'm a 40 F living in NYC and I'm here dating for marriage. Obviously you need to have a relationship first, but I want to make it clear that I am not looking for anything " casual and consistent" and no ONS.

About me:

Vanilla:

Things I love: The beach, the opera, seeing friends, going to shul, attending various weird theatre shows around NYC, traveling, board games and TTRPGS. And the mermaid parade. I love the mermaid parade. I like slow walks in the woods and fireside chats and am now a reluctant Knicks fan because I love NYC.

My job: Healthcare worker currently out on disability but hope to get back to it, in the meantime volunteer with various causes

Relationship style: hierarchical polyamory. To me, this means I do want to be married to and live with one partner.

The life I envision together: I envision a life where we outwardly have a very normal life, but your submission to me is woven through it. Example: we wake up together and have a regular chat about the world and the news, but while we're doing that, you're in chastity. Chastity is just an example, the specific kinks that we do together aren't particularly important to me, I'm experienced with most of them, what is important to me is that you are under my power. I also think it's important that you have friends, and maintain contact with your family. So if you're looking for someone to lock you in a basement forever that's not me.

I want someone that wants to elevate my life, weave their own life around mine through their submission to me. I want us to be there for one another in both good and bad times and also to have lots of fun. I'm open to dating someone long distance from NYC, though you'd need to be able to come here for a visit or bring me to you within two weeks of us starting to chat. I'm serious about this and hope you are too. Please use the subject line Ocean so I know that you read this entire post and can follow directions. I tried to attach and image though I'm not sure that it worked.