r/flrdating

“Before we begin, unclench your jaw for me.
Drop your shoulders.
Good.
Now take a slow breath in… and out.
Let the noise fade for a second.
There you are.
You can continue now.”
—
Hi. I’m Brittany.
30. Midwest.
And I’ve been a Domme long enough to know the difference between someone who wants a fantasy and someone who wants to belong to something.
I’ve had online subs, in-person subs, long-term dynamics, short-term dynamics, and the kind of connections that quietly consume your thoughts at 2am. I’ve had multiple submissives stay with me for years because this is not a game to me. It is a relationship. A psychological space. A shift in how you breathe when my name appears on your phone.
I don’t just enjoy control.
I enjoy influence.
The slow unraveling.
The trust.
The dependency that forms when someone realizes they can finally stop performing and simply hand themselves over.
I like being the place your mind crawls back to instinctively.
The person who learns every reaction in your voice.
The one who notices the change in your typing when you need reassurance before you even ask for it.
I enjoy psychological play far more than theatrics.
The subtle things:
Conditioning.
Reward and denial.
Attention as a privilege.
Making you crave praise more than release.
Training your mind to soften when I speak.
Becoming the voice in your head that calms you, teases you, motivates you, and occasionally ruins your ability to focus for the rest of the day.
I want devotion with depth behind it.
Not because you are forced into it.
Because it feels better than pretending you don’t want it.
I’m a pleasure-focused Domme. Your reactions matter to me. Your comfort matters to me. Your growth matters to me. I enjoy guiding someone into becoming more confident, more emotionally open, more honest, more vulnerable, more themselves.
But don’t mistake soft for weak.
I am teasing. Patient. Affectionate. Sweet when earned.
And deeply manipulative in the most consensual, intoxicating ways.
I will get under your skin slowly.
You’ll start checking your phone more.
Reading my messages twice.
Hearing my voice in your head when you make decisions.
Smiling when you’re praised.
Wanting to impress me without realizing how much you need it.
That’s the part I love most.
I enjoy clingy submissives. Romantic submissives. The kind that send me random thoughts during the day because they genuinely want me involved in their life. I want witty banter, late night conversations, memes at inappropriate hours, voice calls where your brain goes soft listening to me talk, and the kind of connection where silence together still feels intimate.
I do not want a part-time submissive who disappears when life gets busy and reappears only when aroused.
This is a dynamic.
It takes consistency, effort, communication, emotional intelligence, and trust.
Some days will feel intoxicating.
Some days will feel vulnerable.
Some days I will challenge you.
And some days I will simply hold your mind together gently like silk between my fingers until you can breathe again.
That matters to me.
What I bring:
Psychological play
Praise and validation
Guided submission
Voice calls
Comfort and reassurance
Teasing and playful torment
Orgasm control
Attention conditioning
Hypnosis experience
Emotional intimacy
Training and structure
Genuine care
Affection
Story writing
Sleep guidance
Deep conversations
A safe place to unravel
I am picky because this takes energy. Real energy. Emotional energy. Time. Presence. Thoughtfulness.
I love what I do too much to give it halfway.
So if you message me, have a personality.
Be clever. Be sincere. Be interesting. Make me curious about you.
I want the sweet boys with sharp minds.
The needy ones trying to act independent.
The romantics.
The overthinkers.
The ones who secretly want someone to look them in the eyes and say, “Enough. Relax. I’ve got you.”
Requirements:
You have time for a real dynamic
You enjoy voice calls and daily communication
You want consistency
You are emotionally open
You can communicate honestly
You enjoy teasing, tasks, affection, and psychological play
You understand effort attracts effort
I’m active from 6am–10pm CST weekdays and far too late on weekends.
Experience level does not matter to me nearly as much as emotional intelligence, curiosity, and effort.
Opening message must include:
Age:
Time zone:
What drew you in:
Secret word: silk
And anything else that makes you memorable.
If your message is dry, low effort, or copied and pasted, I simply won’t respond.
Now impress me.”

I am a 31year old woman from the Czech Republic with a soft spot for well behaved good boys - no matter your age, your soul should be a puppy.

I’m single, and I prefer long term relationships over casual, shallow flirting. You need to be able to connect with me outside the bedroom as well, otherwise there’s no point going any further. Ideally someone local or nearby, because I don’t waste time on things without a future.

On the surface, I’m a normal woman,kind and friendly...but behind closed doors, I’m the one holding the leash.

I love books, the gym, and good wine (and yes, books are worth mentioning twice).

KInk: Scat, pissing, pegging, spank and much more

I honestly don’t know if what I’m looking for even exists anymore.

I keep trying to meet someone online who actually understands me and the kind of relationship I want, but it always ends the same way. Either they turn out strange, emotionally unavailable, or immature… or when someone finally seems decent, they suddenly have unresolved insecurities that affect everything.

About me: I’m almost 30. Soft on the inside, but strong-minded by nature. I love life deeply, I’m affectionate, loyal, emotionally intense, and I want a true soulmate type of connection — someone to build a life with, not just talk for a few days and disappear.

I don’t really care where you’re from. Age-wise I’d prefer someone between 28–50. I need someone patient, emotionally intelligent, calm, reassuring, affectionate, and capable of handling emotional depth and communication in a healthy way.

Physically, I’m attracted to taller men (180cm+), but personality and emotional safety matter more.

One of the biggest reasons I feel hopeless about finding someone is because I’m Muslim, and in my society, genuine interaction between men and women is still heavily judged. Dating isn’t simple here, and meaningful connections feel almost impossible to build naturally.

Sometimes I wonder if I’m asking for too much… but at the same time, I know exactly what kind of love I want.

Looking to connect with someone who leads a conventional life. Someone who’s tough and dominant on the outside but has a weakness inside. A deep, persistent yearning that cannot be satisfied easily. The kind that has to be kept secret most of the time… Except when they’re with me.

With me you get to be soft, naked, vulnerable. You can give into your desire to be degraded and objectified. You can let go of control and surrender to your true purpose - pleasing me.

My type is masculine and fit, clean face, preferably muscular and someone who enjoys to show that off - an exhibitionist. Personality wise - respectful, diligent, affectionate, selfless. You should have interests and not be consumed by kink. I want us to converse like adults and take it beyond the superficial. Hopefully you have thick skin, because I’m not the gentle kind.

I’m based in Eastern Europe but enjoy talking to men from all over, English speaking countries preferred. Privacy for me is important therefore my face is off limits and I don’t reciprocate with media much. Voice messaging, on the other hand, I’m more than happy to entertain.

I hope we’ll speak soon.

Hey, I'm a 20F woman from Canada who is currently in uni. I would describe myself as ambitious and dominant, and am looking for a long term, or life partner ideally. I would love to find someone who I can spend my days with laughing, enjoying each other's company and doing fun things together. If you looked at me in real life I have a bit of an icy/coldness to me, but can promise I am a very caring and loving partner who would try my best to always make my s/o happy. I am looking for a man who loves to serve, and be submissive, and wouldn't mind that sort of dynamic. Also someone I can talk to, confide in, and share my feelings with without judgement, and I would of course do the same for them. I am pretty successful, make my own money and am independent in that regard, but I love masculine men who have a provider mindset and love providing for their woman. Providing doesn't always mean financial, it can be in the form of acts of service, or even taking a load off.

In terms of personality, I am an ambivert. By default, I am more introverted and many of my hobbies are ones that I can do at home, however I am not by any means antisocial, and I have good communication skills, am fun to talk to, and work in a role which requires a lot of communication with peers, and others. For this reason I am drawn to the golden retriever energy, as I feel like someone who can balance out that introverted quiet side of me would be a good pairing, although this is certainly not a requirement.

I love reading, anime, games, and going to the gym. I pride myself on being active and fit, and go to the gym 4-5x a week. I love skiing and skating in the winter as well! it would be great if you were also into fitness.(we could even go to the gym together!)

As for a physical description l, am 5'5 and around 120lbs, and have a conventionally Attractive face by modern Western beauty standards. I am fiercely loyal, and you never have to worry about infidelity around me. I am a huge fan of communication in a relationship so we should always feel comfortable talking to each other. I know physical attraction is not the most important factor, but it is still important to me (and probably you too!), so I don't mind sharing photos of myself first to see if the initial physical attraction is there, and you can do the same. Im a big fan of men with face cards, so if you have a pretty face hmu😉. I also have a weakness for men who look masculine on the outside, and people would never be able to guess you are submissive just from looking at them. I'm not that picky about height, but would prefer if you were taller than me.

In terms of kinks, I won't go into detail too much here, but I am open to anything you consent to and are comfortable with. To be honest, I am not that keen on doing things that would physically hurt my s/o but that is something we can talk about and come to an agreement on if it's something your interested in. However despite this, I love vanilla romantic relationships as well and would prefer that to be the base dynamic, with kinks of your choice added in throughout! Above all I would just like a kind and supportive guy who can cherish me the way I hope to cherish them.

As I said in the beginning I live in Canada right now, so I would love to meet up in person eventually if things go well, but no rush, as we can talk online first and be sure we are actually compatible.

I apologize this was very long lol but hopefully it gave good insight into what I'm looking for and what you can expect from me. Feel free to DM if you wanna talk more! 💖

NOTE ABOUT DM'S If you are interested in messaging me, please include your age, an introduction about yourself, and a physical description as well. Thanks!

Submissiveness is more than sexual and is a lifestyle---seems like you...? Then you are in the right place!!! (Dont just skim through and take your time to read it)

Tired of planning every instance of life? Want to dedicate your waking hours to someone completely? Want someone to have a full leash on your life and decisions? Someone to tell you what to do and what not to do in every moment of your life? Or perhaps you want someone to remind you of your place as the lowest piece of shit out there?

Your puppetmaster would be just me! So give up your strings and perhaps we can have some shows for a while ;) \[terms and conditions applied!\]

What I expect:

• Should be of the age range 22 to 26

• Chemistry! Chemistry! Chemistry!

• Well mannered, emotionally available and doesnt have commitment issues

• The place you are from doesn't matter as long as you can manage the time difference

• Someone willing to blindly obey me.

• Willing to give up control of each and every aspect of life.

• Should be active on reddit as i won't be giving my other socials unless i feel so

• Not a switch

• Should be willing to grow out hair so i can imagine grabbing it (not that long just till the shoulder)

• Is okay with the extremest of the extremes

• Has down bad humiliation kink (please don't get offended easily)

• Clingy

• Can cook

• Can keep up a conversation

• Willing to send me photos and videos

• Willing to commit long term (might as well follow you to old age home if we vibe enough)

• You should earn my time and attention \[wag that tail like the good boy you are :)\]

• Shouldn't be pushy \[if i say no or not interested or anything along those lines more than 2 times, then its a no\]

Preferences (not strict)

• Funny

• Bratty

• Watches anime (so we can discuss something)

• Looks dominating

• Willing to send photos with face

• Should have a personality

• Have cats (we can exchange pussy pics hehe) or pets in general or atleast likes them

• Okay with getting beaten up

• Has a life where you are in control or in leadership positions but wants to give it away in private

Who shouldn't message me:

• People with fwbs, is/was married, situationships, relationships, any kind of commitment to other human beings as i am looking for something monogamous \[you guys already have something on your plate, let the guys who have nothing eat :) \]

• Busy people (don't commit if you will be busy with somethings like exams, promotions, travels, etc really soon). I am impatient and I expect quick replies. You will be excused to be free if you have such commitments a bit later into the relationship after we form a connection.

• People with tattoos, and piercings except on ears and nose

• People with kids (I am childfree and is planning to continue that, but may try to get you preg ;))

• Religious people who preaches (don't preach in my dms, i already hear enough from the church)

About me:

• I am 23...well 24 soon

• Indian

• 5'5

• Brown, black curly hair, black eyes

• Interests include movies, anime and digital art

• Just graduated

• Unemployed currently so lots of time in my hands

• Looking for something long term and monogamous

• Loves to sleep (?)

• Kinks unlocked: CEI, JOI, degradation, pet play, getting worshipped, cum play, ass play (yours btw), really light feminization, maid training, (i am relatively new, so lets explore more together)

• I am also into point based system where you earn points by doing tasks and use that to touch yourself

• Limits: anything illegal, blood, toilet plays, scat, cuckolding (I am not generous in sharing my properties nor do I want to be shared)

• That's all I think...

• Also funny :)

How to message:

• Write a long long introduction with your age \[if you include dob, i will wish you :)\],

• Your experiences (include everything remotely sexual in nature, let me enjoy some smut)

• Totally okay even if you are inexperienced too

• What you do in life etc

• And a photo of yourself

• If I see some AI slop, you will be blocked immediately! (Guys, please don't waste water for your pervertness)

• Write takemeasyourpersonalslut instead of hi or hello

• Dont call me mommy. Last time i checked, i haven't given birth to anyone.

We wont be diving directly into this unless we make a connection. We will start of as being friends, having friendly talks, with maybe some flirting here and there. We are gonna take this really slow so if you don't have the patience then please don't message me. If you ask for anything before that, we won't talk further more.

I don't mind to keeping it just flr or converting it to dating with marriage in mind (👉👈). Afterall its better to find a life partner who are dedicated for the same passion, right?

My dms might be flooded so if I feel like you are not my cup of tea, I won't be replying at all (I apologize in advance). Either save the post or remember this since I don't want to keep reminding you of what I wrote.

If this resonates with you, my dm is wide open. Even if it doesn't fully resonates, mention that parts too.

See ya :)

I’m a 20-year-old college track athlete, and balancing a heavy training schedule with my studies takes an insane amount of discipline and dominant energy. Because I spend my days taking charge on the track, I’ve realized I want that same absolute control in my personal life through a Female Led Relationship (FLR). I’m looking for an older, established submissive man who is ready to completely hand over the reins and live to serve his goddess. If you are debt-free, secure in your life, and genuinely ready to slowly build trust until I have complete control over your entire daily routine and lifestyle, you are exactly what I’m looking for.

Hiii im 23 living in Europe but of African descent. I love autum and Halloween as a whole, in fact October in general is my favourite month of the year, My hobbies are reading books yoga going on walks, playing mobile games, cooking, currently thinking of joining a tennis club. I have black curly hair,brown eyes. I am about 5’5 and 75kg but on a weight loss journey. I love cats but don’t have any and currently a 3rd year medical student.

I'm looking for a genuine long-term relationship with a guy of a similar age, I’m open minded to someone anywhere, I’d describe myself as more on the feminine side, I also do go to the gym and trying to look after myself and prioritise my health. I value communication education and a positive vibe. My goals are to make you happy and cook for you.

I am a huge sci-fi fan I love sci-fi shows and movies, in my free time that’s what I like to watch, I have a big personality and love to talk a lot and call.

The type of guy I’m looking to date is one that isn’t afraid to be open with his feelings, someone who isn’t overally sexual and isn’t selfish, I value a guy with good communication skills and a loving personality. If you like documentary’s or like history that is a plus in my books. I also would expect a guy that doesn’t mind being long distance for the next 3 years till I graduate, we can visit each other during school breaks.

I’ve always been interested in a FLR and also into swinging so if your curious message me.

Trying this again after I feel like I have gotten my bearings together and self-reflected on my life, my deen, and where I am at in this journey of life. I'm about to be 35, I'm 5’7 and 120 lbs. I just recently moved to the Dallas area recently and I was hoping to meet an interesting muslim sub who wants an emotional connection and a long-term relationship (eventually of course!!) Looking for a muslim man only who’s submissive, wants a longterm relationship that leads to marriage and kids, whose fit and muscular. Looking for someone who only eats halal, prays 5 times a day, fasts during ramadan, and reads Quran.

Lifting and fitness is a huge passion of mine, I'd say that fitness is something that has become a huge part of my life since I was 18 and I have always wanted someone who I can share that passion with. I have a professional degree with a corporate career. I’d like to be able to retire early and I am striving for a wealthy and rich lifestyle for myself and my loved ones, I am currently trying to build on the side a real estate empire, investing in real estate and building a portfolio while increasing my financial acumen. Financial success is definitely something I am striving towards, and looking to build alongside with someone.

I love spending time with my friends and families, love meeting new people and getting to know the really extensive Muslim community in DFW. I'm having a ton of fun with them, going to restaurants and trying new foods. I would love to travel more!! I love to travel, it’s a huge passion that makes me absolutely enjoy my life. I really love staying active and I love going on long walks or hiking! I used to surf and I skii too! Cooking is a hobby of mine as well, my friends tell me I’m a good chef and I enjoy counting my calories and tracking my macros (is it weird I weigh my food!?) It’s just one thing that makes me committed to my fit lifestyle. I do love to cook everything, especially for a cheat day, but overall my diet is focused on a healthy halal lifestyle!

Intellectual pursuits fascinate me and I am quite heavily invested in pursuing them recently: Philosophy fascinates me and I am slowly getting into Stoicism. Currently reading Stoic texts but I find that reading is such a mental based exercise it's something I wish to continue developing in the future.

My style of Fem Dom:

I want our relationship to stay between us, many members of our community are not really familiar with this and have preconceived notions on gender roles and sexuality. I am more of a gentle dom, I have a bit more of an emphasis on making you do tasks and having you complete them. (take out the trash, do the dishes, nothing weird etc., nothing super demanding). I have a HUGE thing for muscles, and I definitely love ordering you around and making sure that you lift and goto the gym, also I love a sub who keeps himself in shape because in some way I know he’s doing it for me, and if you look good shirtless it’s a bonus. My fem dom is quite gentle compared to the extremes I see on here, I am focused on a sub who is all about praise, a gentle fem dom dynamic that is about being attentive to my needs while also maintaining a romantic/emotional/intellectual connection. I am into ensuring he does all of my tasks, he is attentive to my needs, and he is good at keeping me happy. I enjoy being a corporate woman with strong credentials who also has a partner who is strong and masculine to the world, but submissive to me in private. I want someone who will worship my fit brown goddess body. I do not wish to discuss sexual, physical or kinks in the initial conversations, let’s please get to know one another and build a repertoire and comfort before we share such things.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a submissive guy who is looking for something serious eventually. I want something that has an emotional connection. I find with a lot of subs there is a huge emphasis on the lifestyle, but not enough on connecting emotionally. I want to reassure you that I am fully committed to the fem dom lifestyle, just need to be in a monogamous relationship so that I can really enjoy it with someone who I can trust and feel secure with. I love my life, I just want to round out this part of me. I’m very well-rounded and an absolute boss babe, just need someone to add to that. I also want to be able to get along with him outside the bedroom, feel like I’m in a ‘normal’ relationship while also getting to know each other! I want to be in a spiritually aligned relationship with Deen while also privately exploring our physical, mental, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual relationship.

At the core, what I’m looking for is a partner who is attentive, emotionally available, spiritually aligned, and who wants to make me happy not out of obligation, but because he feels connected to me. The submissive energy shows up in our daily life such as being supportive, consistent, disciplined, taking pride in pleasing me, and also taking care of himself physically and mentally.

These are my must haves:

• I prefer a younger guy who is 25-30 but I don't mind someone who is less than 35 years old
• A Muslim and actively practicing his deen
• Height is always nice but will not hold it against anyone as most of brown guys are short kings (and we love them either way)
• South Asian (I love my other ethnic brothers and sisters, but something I've come to realize is for me it's important to be culturally aligned)
• Professional and educated
• Serious about a long term relationship leading to marriage and children
• Serious about fitness (this is a huge ask for me please)
• Would prefer someone located in Dallas or TX at least, if not then in the US and open to relocating to me.

I’d love to hear more about you though: your lifestyle, your deen, fitness, career, and what you’re ultimately looking for long term. That matters to me just as much as the dynamic. Longer responses get my attention.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hello dears,

I'm a gentle domme and also an experienced hypnotist for well over 7 years. I've been fascinated with hypnosis since I was very young, seeing it on TV and movies and such. I’ve always been drawn to the creativity and the control aspects of hypnosis, but also the consent and cooperation involved between hypnotist and subject. It's like a long and elaborate dance as we play together. After learning how to hypnotize people from streamers and other content creators, I've been doing my own hypnosis sessions on calls with dozens of guys through the years. I started practicing on Omegle, for anyone who used to use that lovely service! Please let me know if you did, as I love connecting over this. I still enjoy having sessions with experienced subjects over and over, and I also enjoy introducing newbies to hypnosis for the first time.

It's enjoyable to build rapport with a sub to go deeper and deeper every time. I do prefer building a bond longer term rather than with a one off session, assuming we click well and you enjoy yourself.

I do prefer college-aged guys in their 20s or younger looking 30s who are fit or at least pretty well maintained. No need to be completely ripped, although that certainly doesn't hurt. Your personality and imagination capabilities are more important though. There's nothing worse than a hot guy who can't hold a conversation, or with hypnosis imagine his hands simply being magnetized together. I'll take a solid 7 body with a 10 personality and imagination over a 10 body with a 1 personality and imagination any day.

Important: I'm mic-only for all of my hypnosis sessions on calls, and I have guys show their face on cam with me for proper hypnosis induction (mic-optional for you, though preferred).

If you’re not into hypnosis and prefer just being told what to do, please let me know. I enjoy a gentle domme with eager to please sub dynamic. I love showoffs and guys who will gladly do tasks for me, both on calls and in between sessions.

If you're interested in trying my hypnosis and domme sessions, shoot me a personality filled chat message that will grab my attention, since I do get a lot of requests, so please don't just say hey or hypnotize me. I like people who show off their personality from the jump. Wow me. :)

I get a lot of messages, so please do your best to stand out. Tell me what makes you especially YOU. Sharing a SFW pic or two after I accept your chat helps me too, since I get so many responses. Please, don’t send me any NSFW pics. Finally to make sure you read my message, please share your favorite part of your own body with me.

I look forward to meeting you and perhaps taking you under and/or instructing you soon!

– Hypno Jess

24 F Bangalore, looking for a genuine submissive man who understands FLR, femdom, and the value of building a real dynamic beyond surface level conversations. I am not interested in low effort messages or people who think submission is just throwing around labels without understanding the mindset behind it. What attracts me most is emotional intelligence, consistency, patience, and someone who genuinely enjoys a female led dynamic built on trust and mutual respect.

For me, FLR is not just about bedroom roles. It is about energy, structure, emotional connection, and naturally taking the lead in a relationship where both people feel fulfilled in their roles. I enjoy being in control and I appreciate a man who feels comfortable embracing submission with confidence rather than insecurity. A good submissive knows how to listen, communicate honestly, and make his woman feel prioritized without needing constant validation.

I am into femdom dynamics that feel personal, playful, and mentally stimulating rather than forced or performative. Teasing, praise, discipline, control, attention, and emotional power exchange are all things I enjoy when there is genuine chemistry involved. I prefer someone patient enough to build tension naturally instead of rushing straight into explicit talk five minutes into a conversation. The strongest connections usually come from slow burn chemistry and mutual understanding.

I value maturity, cleanliness, ambition, and someone who can actually hold a conversation outside the dynamic too. Submission is attractive when it comes from self awareness and intention, not desperation. I appreciate a man who understands boundaries, consistency, and effort. If you are naturally attentive, respectful, and enjoy making a woman feel admired and cared for while also enjoying guidance and structure yourself, we will probably connect well.

Outside of FLR and femdom, I enjoy music, sarcasm, late night conversations, intelligent people, and personalities with depth. I am not looking for someone who turns every interaction into copy pasted fantasies. I would rather find someone real who understands that trust and emotional connection make the dynamic stronger.

Physical attraction matters, but mindset matters more. I am open minded about where things go if the connection feels genuine and the energy matches naturally.

If this resonates with you, send a proper introduction instead of one word messages. Tell me what interests you about FLR, what kind of dynamic you are looking for, and what draws you toward submission in relationships. Effort always stands out.

Bangalore preferred, but open to the right connection anywhere in India.

I have been dominant and had dominant desires for as long as I can remember but I have had to suppress that side of me in past relationships. I don't want to do that anymore. I want to find my forever love who I can own and who will worship me.

Beyond kink I'm an active person I enjoy cycling, running and the gym. I also play badminton occasionally but I'm a sore loser so if you challenge me and win your butt will feel the cost of victory....

What am I looking for? I don't do casual. I want to find the love of my life. The one I can return home to every day and who will cook for me, give me a massage and draw me a bath. Someone who is as comfortable following as I am leading. I'm not looking for a switch. Monogamy is VERY important to me, I want it to be just us in our own universe. That's love to me.

You have to be ages 25-38 but emotional maturity and readiness to settle down is more important than the number. I want to get married and have children in a few years and it's important you have a similar vision for the future.

Also: distance is not an issue to me! I can work remote so I'm very flexible. That said it's a big plus if you live in Europe.

So requirements: you are single, male, submissive, monogamous and between ages 25-38.

I look forward to hearing from you!

About me:
I'm the kind of person who fills her life with things she loves: cooking up a storm in the kitchen, getting lost on a hike, wandering through museums and festivals, reading a good book, traveling somewhere new, volunteering for causes I care about, watching TV shows, and more.

Personality-wise, I'm direct, and I value kindness, honesty, and growth. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, and I absolutely love to laugh.

What I'm looking for:
A sub who wants a long-term dynamic, either FLR or TPE. I have a strong preference for a sub who's clingy and craves attention and structure. A sub who feels restless without being owned. Also, someone who is comfortable with pain, chastity, orgasm denial, anal play, and more.

Other qualities I'm looking for: emotional maturity, kindness, a genuine desire to serve, the ability to communicate, someone with their own hobbies, and someone who is full of life.

In terms of kinks and how we can introduce them into our dynamic, I'm open-minded and not in a rush to get sexual. I'm looking for something slow-paced. We can explore together once trust is built. I want us to take our time, get to know each other, and let things unfold naturally. When it clicks, it clicks. And when it does, I want to own you completely.

In your first message, include your age, a bit about yourself, and what you're looking for.

I'm excited to meet you!

Hello - thanks for reading my ad.

In most of my life, I've been the dominant one. Certainly at work, where I've had significant leadership roles; it's a given, I have to be. In most romantic relationships, the same way. However, when I was younger, I did have one relationship where I was the submissive one, and I loved it. Recently separated (will be divorced shortly), I've been thinking about what I want going forward, and I can't stop thinking about that.

In that relationship where I was submissive, it started in an interesting way. I had no idea she was dominant, but a few weeks into our relationship, something happened. We had been making out, and something distracted me, so I looked away. She grabbed my chin and turned my head, and slapped me. "Look at me" she said. That command, for some reason, filled a deep need that I had without even knowing it. She held on to my chin and said something along the lines of "you're going to start doing what you're told" - and I did.

She basically controlled every aspect of my life. She'd keep me naked around the house, have me do chores and normal domestic things. Anything she told me. If I was out of line she'd slap me, also during sex along with choking me. Anytime she wanted, I'd have my head between her legs until she was satisfied, or she would sit on my face and use me for her pleasure. She'd sometimes make me lay on the floor and kiss her feet. Anything she wanted me to do, I did. She made all of the decisions.

I am a masculine guy, no one would suspect I'm into something like this. I'm white, 6'2" tall, look a lot younger than my age, fit and active.

I want to find something like that again. Let's get to know each other, and if you're not in my local area, I can come and see you.

If we click, I am happy to locate you here at my expense.

I’ll be blunt: I value clarity over small talk. I am a 29-year-old (turning 30) professional—authoritative and disciplined in my career, but deeply sensitive and possessive in private. I am a woman of contrasts who thrives when I am the central focus. In my ideal dynamic, I naturally take the lead, and I’m looking for a man who finds peace and comfort in that structure.

What I am Looking For:
• Background: A mature European man (ideally Scandinavian, 40s–50s).
• Stability: Must be established, successful, and possess the "patience of a saint."
• Physical: Height 180 cm (5'11") or taller.
• The Connection: Someone gentle who values devotion over ego and enjoys being guided by a strong, dedicated woman.

• The Commitment: I have zero interest in casual dating. The goal is a permanent union. For this to move toward marriage, reverting/converting to Islam is a non-negotiable requirement (even if as a formal step).

The Goal:
I am seeking a serious, long-distance start that leads to a lifelong partnership. If you are a stable, patient man ready to be the anchor for a protective and "intense" Queen, let’s talk.

Please DM with:

1. Your age and location.
2. Your height.
3. Your honest thoughts on being with a partner who demands total priority and protective possession.

33F here looking for longterm connection. To be honest Preferably someone who’s down the road for marriage/kids maybe if the situation unfolds for it. But that will be years into the relationship presumably.

My type is submissive and innocent/puppy/golden retriever kind of guy or girl. (I am bi/demi) I am open for both genders and most kinks. But

(PLEASE BE FIT OR GO TO THE GYM)

I don’t mind anxious,clingy, codependent guy. It’s cute in my eyes I like the attention.

As a domme I am caring/ empathic but still want control. (Like stereotypical oldschool-male role but switched) you will be the ‘wife’. I don’t care if it’s behind closed doors or in the open, it depends what you’re comfortable with.

I live in Norway and you MUST be open to meet in real. (Not doing no online shit only) although I don’t mind getting to know online, the connection must be with the goal TO MEET.

I am a gamer and play league of legends mostly.

I am good at cooking and don’t mind doing it. But I want you to contribute, you can get the shopping or clean when I’m done.

I don’t mind sharing chores. But would also love if you like to do some maid play. (You as maid)

I am very open minded but don’t mistake that for that I don’t know what I want.

Hi! I’m 20 years old and honestly just trying my luck here because dating apps can get exhausting 😅 I’m hoping to meet someone genuine, kind, and fun to talk to.

A little about my type: I’m really attracted to guys who are tall, white, and handsome 😭 but personality still matters the most to me. I like someone who’s respectful, sweet, has a sense of humor, and can hold good conversations. Bonus points if you’re caring and emotionally mature.

About me:

• Loves music, skincare/makeup, and random late-night talks

• Student life keeps me busy but I still make time for people I care about

• Clingy in a cute way once I’m comfortable lol

• Looking for something real, not just temporary entertainment