Unemployed partner

hello! me (unemployed) and my bf is going Back to Thailand. We’ve been there before na last april but the difference is may work pa ako when we went there and I was asked sa IO like less than 5 minutes lang i think maybe because im not a first time traveler. But now I am unemployed and he is shouldering everything. Itll be my 3rd time na to go outside the country. We are just going back to chill without itinerary (but of course i will make one to show them) and we will meet his family there as well. but not spend the whole trip with them. Ano kaya mga dapat e ready for IO? confused kasi ako if need pa namin ng affidavit of support. and magiging suspicious ba for the IO? please help huhu thank you!!

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 10 days ago

Unemployed partner

hello! me (unemployed) and my bf is going Back to Thailand. We’ve been there before na last april but the difference is may work pa ako when we went there and I was asked sa IO like less than 5 minutes lang i think it maybe because it im not a first time traveler. But now I am unemployed and he is shouldering everything. Itll be my 3rd time na to go outside the country. We are just going back to chill without itinerary (but of course i will make one to show them) and we will meet his family there as well. but not spend the whole trip with them. Ano kaya mga dapat e ready for IO? confused kasi ako if need pa namin ng affidavit of support. and magiging suspicious ba for the IO? please help huhu thank you!!

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 11 days ago

POST MA CHECK UP

Hello! Ive made a few posts here about my MA journey, from the procedure to post-MA. My boyfriend found this group, and I’m so thankful for it. 🥹

Im now 8 weeks post-MA. I was still bleeding (or had what seemed like my period) for about 2 weeks. Overthinker talaga ako kaya I’m really grateful to everyone here who always answered my questions 🥹 Soo nag decide ako to get checked by another doctor, and she requested a TVS and a Pap smear, which I did. I found out that I have PCOS in both ovaries. I also had tvs before I got pregnant because of my irreg periods but it says na Hormonal Imbalance lang daw before 🫩 So better have 2nd opinion talaga. Anyways, Im (kind of?) thankful because everything is clear now, and thankfully there’s nothing left inside me.

I also just wanted to share how I’ve been feeling throughout this whole experience because this will hopefully be my last post here. (I really don’t want to go through this again. 🥺)

Before I got pregnant, my boyfriend and I had already talked about what we would do if this ever happened, so we were both sure of our decision. I didnt experience what some of you have shared, like feeling sad or constantly wondering if you made the right choice. Idk sometimes I just question myself na maybe im a bad person for not feeling ‘bad’ about it? or ito na ba yung sinasabi ng mga tao na ‘selfishness’? idk but that’s just how I felt ☹️ hindi pa talaga ako ready. And specially in this economy 🫩

What I can say is that I never want to experience pregnancy again unless im truly ready. I felt the worst Ive ever felt physically. At first, I thought I was just being OA but umiiyak ako almost every day because I hated how I felt. It honestly made me admire all the moms out there even more. 🥹💗

I also posted before that I had extra pills, but I realized how scary it is dahil sa scammers, so im sorry if I decided to just keep them. 😭

Anyway, thank you so much, sissies! Thank you for all your kindness, support, and reassurance. I hope we all continue to heal well, practice safe sex, and remember that you are not alone**.** 🤍

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 1 month ago

Clinic reco

Hi! Kinsa mga taga Cebu here? Im 7 weeks post MA, and wanted to get check lang to make sure okay ra akong body after. Wanted to ask if you have a clinic/doctor na ma recommend (preferably kanang approachable and dili strict 😭) and fast. Thank you in advance!

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 1 month ago

Extra

Hi, sissies! 💗 I just wanted to thank you all for your patience and for always answering my questions whenever I needed help. I had a successful MA, and I’m now 1 month post-MA.
I got my pills from F🎉, but I also ordered from WHW at the same time because I wanted to make sure I could do it ASAP. F🎉 arrived first, and I only received my WHW pills last week.
I don’t want to sell them, so I was wondering if it’s okay to give them away instead. Of course, I’ll be careful about who I give them to if that’s okay. I was thinking of offering them to someone in this group who’s struggling financially. I just wanted to ask if it’s okay to give away the pills because I genuinely just want to help.

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 2 months ago

Is this normal

Hi everyone! I am 5 weeks post MA. for the past two weeks im still bleeding but spot2 lang sometimes pero sometimes wala din and may blood talaga if I do physical activities (I am slowly going back to the gym) and now po nag bleeding po ako like Menstruation period po and maskit din po slight puson ko. Menstruation ko na po ba ito? or hindi po ito normal? thank you po in advance!

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 2 months ago

Post MA question

Hi!! Im 4 weeks post MA po may questions lang po ako. How many weeks po usually the bleeding stops? and ilang days/weeks ang agwat for your Menstruation to be back? I still have bleeding po pero hindi na heavy like sometimes i just wear liners but sometimes din po nag bebleed sya napupuno yung liners. Also, I took PT napo and nag negative na po sya. Thank you po in advance sa sasagot!

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 2 months ago

Question

Hi! im currently 12 days post MA. Still bleedung anf on/off cramps. Pumunta po ako ng mall kanina at I suddenly had cramps all over my body and giniginaw po ako. Tas ngayon po my fever po ako walang headache and walang cramps but mainit po yung katawan ko. I already took meds. this normal po ba? or need ko pumunta sa hospital? 🥹thank u pooi

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u/Naive-Machine-6113 — 3 months ago