u/NaturalSuch6810

I (F22) and my (M 23) bf have been together for quite some time. Everything is great until it comes to sex. I am not a really sexual person due to past trauma and he is a super sexual person making comments towards me almost every day. Almost to the point to where I have to ask him to stop sexualizing me so much cause I feel like more of a toy than an intimate partner. He keeps asking for head saying he feels like a homeless person begging, and how he has needs ect. My problem is I have bad trauma with that. I was forced to give oral when I was 17 so I just really struggle with head and sex in general. I flipped out on him cause he just kept going and going about the comments how I don’t give head, how he has needs, how he feels like a homeless person begging on the streets. I’ve explained that I prefer to not do that cause it links back to the time I was 17 and It just brings back the worthless feeling I once felt. I want to have sex sometimes but when he makes the comments then it just turns me off.