The apps are slowly killing me
I’ve decided to give the apps another go (primarily muzz but also tried hinge this time), and somehow it’s worse than I even remember.
Most male profiles I come across have minimal or no bio, I tend to just swipe past these because if you can’t even be bothered writing a few sentences then you’re not serious. Then there’s the issue of very slow/no replies once we get past introductions and don’t get me started on being unmatched once I unblur my photos on muzz (rejection therapy I guess). I very much get the sense that many people on the apps have a ‘grass is greener’ mentality and think they will find someone better
I am in my mid 20s, successful career-wise, decent looking, if I say so myself and practising alhamdulilah.
Am I doing something wrong?? I’m getting to the point where I feel like I will probably leave the apps again because it feels like there’s no barakah in this, and it is draining me. I can also feel myself compromising/dropping my standards the longer I am on there.
Maybe the kind of husband I am looking for would not be on a dating app. In that case where do I come across these kind of men irl. I think I could definitely put myself out there more day to day which I am making an active effort to now, but any advice as to the best way to go about this?