r/SomaliRelationships

Every day I wake up thinking, “Today is the day I’m going to meet my husband.” 😂

Like, surely today is the day. Maybe at Target. Maybe at the coffee shop. Maybe he’s going to accidentally bump into my cart in the grocery store and our love story begins. 😭
Meanwhile, I’m getting ready like I’m going to meet the love of my life, only to come home having interacted with absolutely zero eligible men.

At this point, I’m starting to think my husband is either:
In a different city,
Taking his sweet time,
Or completely unaware that I’m waiting for him 😒

But every morning? Same delusion. Same optimism.

“Maybe today.” 🤡❤️

Salam brothers hope y’all doing well !

So I’m in my early twenties still in school and working paying bills and helping my family out.
I know I’m not ready for marriage that’s something I can admit so i have to delay marriage for now and save up so it’ll take a long time to do that. For the brother’s that is married how much money did you save to get married and how long did it take ?

Girl to girl I’m in my early 20s and I feel like I made one of the biggest mistakes ever

I overshared way too much about my life with some girls I met. I told them about some health issues because I knew I’d be gone sometimes and they would keep asking me where I was. Otherwise I probably wouldn’t have said anything.

Then I found out that one of them had told her cousin, and somehow another girl I’m not even close with knew about it too.

Alhamdulillah I don’t really talk about my health anymore because I’m doing much better now. If someone tells me something I don’t go around telling other people. So I guess I thought everyone was like that. But definitely not.

There’s also this guy at our school that I think I might like idk I always denied it or laughed when people brought it up like what do you mean I’ve always been good at keeping secrets. And honestly I feel like the more people know or even have an idea that you like someone or you’re talking to someone the more everything goes downhill. Maybe it’s just me but I swear I don’t want people knowing anything anymore. Now I’m getting ick that I have low key like him. I don’t know what I see in him like I should fr go wash my eyes😭

Also I learned that when two friends are fighting
and they’re both close to you DO NOT GET INVOLVED Just listen and stay neutral. Don’t carry messages or tell one person what the other said because somehow you end up in the middle and have to choose a side. One them keep asking me choose a side I told her I choose me , I and myself 😭

This has happened multiple times and I’m honestly over it that they keep getting into fights for no one reason.
e. They also overshare a lot, which is why I fell for their stupid trap but the funny part is I forget most of what they tell me anyway.