Not sure what else to say or do?!
Hi everyone, first time I'm posting here.
Been married for 18 years, but any marriage issues I have had is to do with either my mil and sil, ALWAYS. When I go to my mil house with my family, I am always left out in conversations and it's like I am invisible in the room. I have stopped going to their house but if I do go (once or twice a year ) It's like I'm not in the room. Even when my in laws come to my house it's the same situation. My sil never has any contact with me and she always ensures I never know any details about her or her own family.
For my own peace of mind, I've stopped all contact which helps but when my husband goes to his mums house, sometimes I need him home due to children issues . This then triggers me when he's not at home and I get hurt more because I'm trying to ignore my hurt and carry on and keep the distance.
I don't want to leave my husband because of one women & my children will get in the middle of this if I decide to leave him.
I don't know what to say or do. I've tried talking to my mil in the past but the blame got shifted to me so I never spoke to her again about how I feel.
Any thoughts / advice? Thanks for reading