u/Neat-Tea

Image 1 — Launching marriage platform next Saturday 22nd August
Image 2 — Launching marriage platform next Saturday 22nd August

Launching marriage platform next Saturday 22nd August

Alhamdulillah, we’re finally ready to launch!

Originally, we had planned to release the site earlier this month, but we’ve been adding a few finishing touches to polish everything.

The site will officially launch next Saturday, 22nd August. The exact launch time will be confirmed closer to the date.

I’ve included a small preview of the site with two screenshots.

We’re also looking for people who would be interested in helping us moderate the site. If you’re interested, feel free to reach out.

u/Neat-Tea — 6 days ago

Marriage Search Thread - August 2026

A new thread will be posted on the 1st of every month, giving brothers and sisters who are actively searching for marriage a fresh space to post and a reason to check in regularly for the most recent updates.

Here is a link to the July 2026 thread, if you want to look at the last month's posts. Feel free to post every month on the new threads created.

This is a thread for Marriage! Strictly for those who in search of partners who also have HSV and is no way a thread for dating or anything else. Please keep it halal and follow the rules that I will list below:

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.

This is the August 2026 page for brothers looking for marriage.

This is the August 2026 page for sisters looking for marriage.

Please do not feel like the only option is to restrict yourself to a partner with HSV. We have had some members share positive disclosure stories with potentials who didn't have HSV so there are people who will understand your situation and accept you. This a link to some of positive disclosures, Insha'Allah, this list will grow.

Note from Mods

We would like to state that you should exercise any usual caution that you would when speaking to someone online. We cannot be held responsible for any individuals on here, although we can help you out as much as we can within our capacity as moderators.

If you experience harassment in private messages from anyone on or off of this thread, please contact Reddit admins. You can also send us a message to help you deal with problems that you may be having as well as if you need to ask me general questions about anything on the sub.

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u/Neat-Tea — 14 days ago

Sisters looking for marriage - August 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [F]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• ⁠Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• HSV Type: [HSV-1/ HSV-2/ Both]

• ⁠Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• ⁠Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

Age and Gender: 32F

Location: London, UK

Marital Status: Single, never married

Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

Ethnicity: East African

The Age Range You Are Seeking: 27-32

Height Preference: 5'5" or taller

Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Economist

Willingness to Relocate: Not Willing to Relocate

Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 14 days ago

Brothers looking for marriage - August 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [M]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• ⁠Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• HSV Type: [HSV-1/ HSV-2/ Both]

• Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• ⁠Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• ⁠Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

Age and Gender: 32M

Location: London, UK

Marital Status: Single, never married

Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

Ethnicity: South Asian

The Age Range You Are Seeking: 23-26

Height Preference: 5'9" or taller

Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Engineer

Willingness to Relocate: Yes, preferably to UAE or Canada

Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and Urdu, enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 14 days ago

Final round of testing

Looking for people to help provide feedback on the site. Reach out if you’d like to help. Aim is to go live with the site by the end of this month.

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u/Neat-Tea — 1 month ago

Marriage Search Thread - July 2026

A new thread will be posted on the 1st of every month, giving brothers and sisters who are actively searching for marriage a fresh space to post and a reason to check in regularly for the most recent updates.

Here is a link to the June 2026 thread, if you want to look at the last month's posts. Feel free to post every month on the new threads created.

This is a thread for Marriage! Strictly for those who in search of partners who also have HSV and is no way a thread for dating or anything else. Please keep it halal and follow the rules that I will list below:

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.

This is the July 2026 page for brothers looking for marriage.

This is the July 2026 page for sisters looking for marriage.

Please do not feel like the only option is to restrict yourself to a partner with HSV. We have had some members share positive disclosure stories with potentials who didn't have HSV so there are people who will understand your situation and accept you. This a link to some of positive disclosures, Insha'Allah, this list will grow.

Note from Mods

We would like to state that you should exercise any usual caution that you would when speaking to someone online. We cannot be held responsible for any individuals on here, although we can help you out as much as we can within our capacity as moderators.

If you experience harassment in private messages from anyone on or off of this thread, please contact Reddit admins. You can also send us a message to help you deal with problems that you may be having as well as if you need to ask me general questions about anything on the sub.

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u/Neat-Tea — 2 months ago

Sisters looking for marriage - July 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [F]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• ⁠Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• ⁠Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• ⁠Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32F

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: East African

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 27-32

>Height Preference: 5'5" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Economist

>Willingness to Relocate: Not Willing to Relocate

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 2 months ago

Brothers looking for marriage - July 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [M]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• ⁠Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• ⁠Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• ⁠Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32M

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: South Asian

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 23-26

>Height Preference: 5'9" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Engineer

>Willingness to Relocate: Yes, preferably to UAE or Canada

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and Urdu, enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 2 months ago

[Mod Announcement] We’re looking for beta testers for our marriage platform

Assalamu alaykum everyone,

As some of you know, we’ve been quietly working on a marriage site built specifically for our community, a space where you don’t have to fear judgment, because everyone there already understands.

We’re now ready for a small, private beta and are looking for about 10 testers to help us shape it before a wider launch.

What we’re looking for:
Members of this subreddit with a history of active and positive engagement (this will be prioritised, since we want testers the community already trusts)
Willingness to explore the site and give honest feedback over 2 to 3 weeks
Discretion. We ask that details stay within the beta group for now

What you’d be doing:
Creating a profile, testing features, and telling us what works, what’s confusing, and what’s missing.

How to apply:
Send us a modmail with a few words about why you’re interested. We’ll reach out to selected testers privately.

JazakAllah khair for helping us build something our community deserves.

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u/Neat-Tea — 2 months ago

Marriage Search Thread - June 2026

A new thread will be posted on the 1st of every month, giving brothers and sisters who are actively searching for marriage a fresh space to post and a reason to check in regularly for the most recent updates.

Here is a link to the May 2026 thread, if you want to look at the last month's posts. Feel free to post every month on the new threads created.

This is a thread for Marriage! Strictly for those who in search of partners who also have HSV and is no way a thread for dating or anything else. Please keep it halal and follow the rules that I will list below:

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.

This is the June 2026 page for brothers looking for marriage.

This is the June 2026 page for sisters looking for marriage.

Please do not feel like the only option is to restrict yourself to a partner with HSV. We have had some members share positive disclosure stories with potentials who didn't have HSV so there are people who will understand your situation and accept you. This a link to some of positive disclosures, Insha'Allah, this list will grow.

Note from Mods

We would like to state that you should exercise any usual caution that you would when speaking to someone online. We cannot be held responsible for any individuals on here, although we can help you out as much as we can within our capacity as moderators.

If you experience harassment in private messages from anyone on or off of this thread, please contact Reddit admins. You can also send us a message to help you deal with problems that you may be having as well as if you need to ask me general questions about anything on the sub.

reddit.com
u/Neat-Tea — 3 months ago

Sisters looking for marriage - June 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [F]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• ⁠Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• ⁠Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• ⁠Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32F

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: East African

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 27-32

>Height Preference: 5'5" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Economist

>Willingness to Relocate: Not Willing to Relocate

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 3 months ago

Brothers looking for marriage - June 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [M]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• ⁠Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• ⁠Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• ⁠Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32M

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: South Asian

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 23-26

>Height Preference: 5'9" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Engineer

>Willingness to Relocate: Yes, preferably to UAE or Canada

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and Urdu, enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 3 months ago

Please be wary of this person messaging everyone on here

I have received the same message and other members have reported receiving the same exact message. Please be cautious about signing up to anything and entering any payment details.

u/Neat-Tea — 3 months ago

A new thread will be posted on the 1st of every month, giving brothers and sisters who are actively searching for marriage a fresh space to post and a reason to check in regularly for the most recent updates.

Here is a link to the April 2026 thread, if you want to look at the last month's posts. Feel free to post every month on the new threads created.

This is a thread for Marriage! Strictly for those who in search of partners who also have HSV and is no way a thread for dating or anything else. Please keep it halal and follow the rules that I will list below:

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.

This is the May 2026 page for brothers looking for marriage.

This is the May 2026 page for sisters looking for marriage.

Please do not feel like the only option is to restrict yourself to a partner with HSV. We have had some members share positive disclosure stories with potentials who didn't have HSV so there are people who will understand your situation and accept you. This a link to some of positive disclosures, Insha'Allah, this list will grow.

Note from Mods

We would like to state that you should exercise any usual caution that you would when speaking to someone online. We cannot be held responsible for any individuals on here, although we can help you out as much as we can within our capacity as moderators.

If you experience harassment in private messages from anyone on or off of this thread, please contact Reddit admins. You can also send us a message to help you deal with problems that you may be having as well as if you need to ask me general questions about anything on the sub.

reddit.com
u/Neat-Tea — 4 months ago

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [F]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• ⁠Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• ⁠Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• ⁠Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32F

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: East African

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 27-32

>Height Preference: 5'5" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Economist

>Willingness to Relocate: Not Willing to Relocate

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 4 months ago

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [M]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• ⁠Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• ⁠Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• ⁠Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

>Age and Gender: 32M

>Location: London, UK

>Marital Status: Single, never married

>Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

>HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

>Ethnicity: South Asian

>The Age Range You Are Seeking: 23-26

>Height Preference: 5'9" or taller

>Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Engineer

>Willingness to Relocate: Yes, preferably to UAE or Canada

>Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

>Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and Urdu, enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. ⁠Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. ⁠Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. ⁠Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. ⁠A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. ⁠Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 4 months ago