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Image 1 — Launching marriage platform next Saturday 22nd August
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Launching marriage platform next Saturday 22nd August

Alhamdulillah, we’re finally ready to launch!

Originally, we had planned to release the site earlier this month, but we’ve been adding a few finishing touches to polish everything.

The site will officially launch next Saturday, 22nd August. The exact launch time will be confirmed closer to the date.

I’ve included a small preview of the site with two screenshots.

We’re also looking for people who would be interested in helping us moderate the site. If you’re interested, feel free to reach out.

u/Neat-Tea — 6 days ago
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Woman from masjid wants me to marry her son

Today at prayer a woman said she wants me to meet her son, this is where I try to be as weird and distant as possible because I can't explain to this woman I have herpes and can't marry her son. Haha. Uhg. What an experience this life is. Alhamdulillah for these crazy experiences. Allah knows everything, just keep pursuing what we need for the next life.

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u/glycerine243 — 6 days ago
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Glass is always half full

AsSalaamualaikum wa rahmatullah. I pray you are all doing well, Beithnillah.

For context, my perspective comes from working in healthcare where I cross paths with individuals who are stricken with ailments and diseases on a daily basis. It truly humbles you in a way that is sometimes hard to put into words -- you just have to experience it.

This past week I worked in a clinc that services patients with HIV and AIDS. SubhanAllah, there were so many people of all ages and each of them had a story as to how they ended up in that state.

It has made me even more greatful for my situation. Allah, with His infinite mercy, glory be unto Him, tested me with something lesser than He did others. How can I deny this favor?

Sharing this du'a Our beloved Messenger (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam) taught us to say whenever we see an afflicted person

الْحَمْـدُ للهِ الّذي عافاني مِمّا ابْتَـلاكَ بِهِ، وَفَضَّلَـني عَلى كَثيـرٍ مِمَّنْ خَلَـقَ تَفْضـيلا

Alhamdu lillāhi ‘l-ladhī `āfānī mimmab-talāka bihi wa faḍḍalanī `alā kathīrin mimman khalaqa tafḍīlā.

Praise is to Allah Who has spared me what He has afflicted you with, and preferred me greatly above much of what He has created.

And this hadith...

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ، وَأَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏ انْظُرُوا إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ أَسْفَلَ مِنْكُمْ وَلاَ تَنْظُرُوا إِلَى مَنْ هُوَ فَوْقَكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ لاَ تَزْدَرُوا نِعْمَةَ اللَّهِ ‏" ‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ ‏"‏ عَلَيْكُمْ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Look at those who are beneath you and do not look at those who are above you, for it is more suitable that you should not consider as less the blessing of Allah.”

Sunan Ibn Majah 4142

https://sunnah.com/ibnmajah:4142

u/Ayat-286 — 6 days ago
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Brothers looking for marriage - August 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [M]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• ⁠Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• HSV Type: [HSV-1/ HSV-2/ Both]

• Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• ⁠Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• ⁠Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

Age and Gender: 32M

Location: London, UK

Marital Status: Single, never married

Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

Ethnicity: South Asian

The Age Range You Are Seeking: 23-26

Height Preference: 5'9" or taller

Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Engineer

Willingness to Relocate: Yes, preferably to UAE or Canada

Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and Urdu, enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 14 days ago
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Sisters looking for marriage - August 2026 Thread

Make your post by adding a comment following the format below:

Format of a post

• ⁠Age and Gender: [Your Age] [F]

• ⁠Location: [City, Country]

• Marital Status: [Single/Never Married, Divorced, Widow etc.]

• ⁠Have Any Children: [Yes/No - If yes, provide brief details if comfortable]

• HSV Type: [HSV-1/ HSV-2/ Both]

• ⁠Ethnicity: [e.g., South Asian, Arab, African, etc.]

• Educational Level/Profession: [e.g., Degree level, field of work]

• ⁠Willingness to Relocate: [Yes/No - If yes, specify preferred locations]

• Role of Wali: [Preference regarding the involvement of a Wali in conversations]

• ⁠Other Details/Preferences: [Any other specific preferences or details, like language, hobbies, etc.]

An example post is shown below:

Age and Gender: 32F

Location: London, UK

Marital Status: Single, never married

Have Any Children: No Diagnosed

HSV Type: HSV-1 (G)

Ethnicity: East African

The Age Range You Are Seeking: 27-32

Height Preference: 5'5" or taller

Educational Level/Profession: Graduate, Economist

Willingness to Relocate: Not Willing to Relocate

Role of Wali: Preferably involved in the initial stages of communication

Other Details/Preferences: Seeking someone fluent in English and enjoys traveling

Rules for Posting

  1. Avoid posting too much public information about yourself where you could be identified. This includes when messaging privately as well.
  2. Do not respond to another person by directly replying to their post, message them privately.
  3. Do not post pictures or any other personal information such as your phone number.
  4. A wali is recommended to be present in the conversation as well, so to avoid any crossing of boundaries and to keep things as Islamic as possible.
  5. Any posts that are unrelated or do not follow the format of the post will be removed. If you are concerned about privacy you can leave some sections as blank but no low effort posts. Alternatively, if you have a profile bio from any marriage apps, you can share this however, ensure it does not expose too much personal information.
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u/Neat-Tea — 14 days ago