Let's say I had HSV and in my 20s, and I choose not to disclose this to anyone and also choose not to tell anyone which means even if I want to get married I choose not to tell them. Also I will not marry someone without telling them.
I realistically can't get married right? I would have to remain single all my life. If so how can one deal with his sexual desires for life knowing he won't get married.
I told the dr I had pain in my groin and buttocks area Thursday morning May 7th along with discomfort when I urinated lasted for about 2 days
I felt a bump under my public hair so I used a trimmer with a guard to get it as low as possible so I can see it
Went to the Dr today 4-5days later to examine the bump and explained the symptoms.
Dr examined it with gloves and said this was not herpes and could be many other things and gave me a general panel? HIV,chlam, syph gohn
I asked her to add hsv testing to my lab which she did not recommend but my lab is saying it’s an extra 200.00 not covered so I went home and to think about
Should I go do testing on my own or trust the dr?
Kinda paranoid
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Normally I am some who looks on the brightside of things but lately its been so difficult trying to get married and dont dont get me wrong my muzz profile is doing so well الحمد الله however I have Type 2 herpes lol and when I tell my match that the reaction is what you'd expect and cant blame them for not moving foward and the brothers who do have hsv are vast ان شاءالله but im not getting anywhere with them so im starting to feel as of my best option is to just give up on marriage and accept the fact that it wont happen for me
و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاتة
Amatullah a 28 yr old single musmalima
P.s. thanks for letting me rant 🙂 🫶🏾