u/Necessary_Nerve_5387

Am I overreacting or being uncared for

f 21 in a relationship w m 22 for almost 2 months
So I’ve been dating this guy for almost 2 months and he’s done a couple things that have thrown me off. The day he asked me out I went on Instagram and I saw him liking a woman’s post. A couple actually. So I started looking through his followers and saw he follows a good amount of girls and is in every girls likes. So I told him how I didn’t like that and ofc he said he didn’t see it like that but he won’t do it again. It’s true he didn’t. But then later I was mentioning how this girl was disrespectful to me and asked him why they follow each other. He said she followed him first and they never talked. You’d think he would unfollow her but no and days went by. I had to bring it up to him that I felt uncomfortable just for him to unfollow. I don’t think his intentions are bad I just don’t think he takes my feelings into consideration like why can’t u consider me. Then another time this other girl who literally turned everyone against me saw us talking so she made it her plan to talk to him and she even saw us together and waved at him and he waved back!! (He knew how bad she was to me) and now he’s trying his hardest to apologize but it’s like it doesn’t matter what words u say or gifts u buy I can’t take him seriously anymore and I’m just turned off and wanna be single. Is what he did valid for me to leave or am I over dramatic and he didn’t know? I feel like as a 22 year old ur not a kid you should know how ur actions can affect others

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u/Necessary_Nerve_5387 — 2 days ago