u/Negative_Hunter_1019

Thinking about your sex life, what would you say you and your spouse are each ‘best’ at? What’s your greatest strength in the bedroom, and why?

As promised, here's the first part of my data analysis of the nearly 10 years of posts and comments from this sub. Let's dive in!

Posts per month

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Posts per year

This visual shows the posts per year on this sub; 2026 isn't finished yet of course, but it's on pace to be the bigest year yet!

Community members with the most posts

This visual shows the authors who have posted the most on the sub

Community members who have commented the most

This visual shows which authors have the most total comments made- or in other words, the highest engagers on posts.

Community members with the highest total comment score

This visual shows the users with the highest comment score, meaning users who have garnered a lot of likes on their comments

Community members with the highest average comment score

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That's all for now! I'm working on categorizing the posts now, so that we can see what the top posts were in each category, in terms of likes, comments, and frequency!

Looking forward to a fun series with these posts. If you'd like something specific graphed, please reach out to me!

Also congrats for all the folks who appear on here-your contributions to the sub are appreciated!

Hi all,

I know it's early, but this December will mark the 10 year anniversary of this sub!

As such, I wanted to do something fun, so here's what I'm doing!

I recently exported all of the posts and comments from the sub using a 3rd party tool, and am now working on creating visualizations that analyze various trends within our community.

For example, here's the time of day that posts have been shared, broken out by gender (as self identified or inferred within the post)

This is just a sampler- soon I'll share visualizations that show topics, trends, and maybe even how conversation has shifted over time!

If you have any requests or ideas, please let me know!

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As the questions states- in what ways do you think you're different than others?

No actual data behind this- just feel like this is generally the distribution of posts that we see in our community!

What did I miss? Which types of posts are your favorite?

Love everyone's posts, always so fun to read through! Thanks for being a fun community!

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I've always thought it would be fun to have a virtual way for my wife and I to have sex- not to replace regular sex of course- but just as a form of foreplay.

Well, I recently discovered that The Sims 4 (free on steam) has a sex mod that allows you download sex animation/actions.

Last night, my wife and I created our characters (in our image) and then 'watched ourselves have sex in the game, in all kinds of whacky positions! Especially where certain things (deep throating, anal, etc) aren't something we're able to do, it was fun seeing us do it virtually and experiencing it that way!

We don't do porn, so creating our virtual characters and waching them have sex is the most we'll do- and it It was a new, fun way to spice things up!

Have any of y'all ever done something like that?

Let me know if you're interested in the mod, happy to share more about it.