u/NegotiationMuted6347

If I’m 20 Can my mom throw me out and not give me the things I paid for?

So backstory:

I’m a 20 year old female me and my boyfriend did something the 4th this year (my first time) and mom figured it out so now her and my sister are talking on the phone about throwing me out in the beating hot summer heat that feels like 120 degrees in middlesboro Kentucky and expecting me to not take the stuff I paid for like my care bears plushies and my Xbox oh not to mention my Credit card as well!

I’m stressed so is my boyfriend because mom wants to take me to a doctor and she is saying shit like “you Ain’t Gonna keep that baby” and stuff like state will take my baby just because I was born a “MR” baby and because my boyfriend drinks alcohol (not exclusively but Occasionally) and he smokes a little bit of pot! She also tells me I can’t raise a kid when Darren was a baby I was up all night caring for him when nobody else would changing him,Feeding/burping him,And Putting him to sleep.

Oh and Not to mention I was the only one who got straight A’s in parenting and relationships class caring for a baby doll in sophomore year of high school.

(I wanted to ask this because she is going to try that)

I plan on running away as soon as I turn 21 after my birthday. I’m just waiting for my backpack to come in the mail it’s big enough for my tablet,phone,Clothes, hygiene/Feminine products,my Nintendo switch/Nintendo DS,and my PlayStation 5

I’m leaving for 3 reasons:

•1.because I get treated like I can’t do anything for myself! - They are trying to put me on disability checks when I can run my own business for money and make decent income perfectly fine.

•2.Im constantly dismissed on my feelings about LGBTQ Rights being stripped!?! - Every time I bring up anything LGBTQ That I like or enjoy about that community it’s treated like I’m saying something politics related when I’m not and if it’s not that the bible gets shoved in my mouth!

•3.i always get told I’d be a terrible mother! - This stems from the fact that they don’t want me to have kids or a family of my own at all. (You see I have a boyfriend and he has taken test to prove all he does is smokes and he also has done so much and proven himself to be a wise choice for a father for my children) they just don’t want me with him because he’s bisexual and think that means “sleeping with 2 people” which is false ❌

So in conclusion I’m not allowed to be a adult and make my own decisions or even spend my money without them always being involved in my life 24/7 everyday and them getting pissed and calling me “To Fat For That” in public whenever I go to by certain clothing like belly shirts or tank tops!