Feeling guilty when finding women attractive
I'm not sure if this is the right subreddit for this kind of question bit I thought maybe some guys can relate. I'm 28, I'm nit really good in social situations with people I don't know,sometimes even with people I do know and I never even kissed someone.
I noticed that I try to avoid looking at women I find attractive in public because I feel that I'm objectifying them in that moment. It is espacially bad in the summer when they wear more revealing clothing than in the winter. To be clear they have every right to wears these cloths. It's just that when I see them and I get sexual thoughts I feel like I have to shut those down so I don't objectify them.
Did you ever have similar thoughts and if yes what helped you? Thanks for reading and stay hydrated.