u/New-Regular-9423

I am a social man in my early forties. I meet attractive men across all age groups (from 20yr old college seniors to 55yr old daddies) but I meet younger guys more often because they like to go out like me. Some of them like me but I just can’t erase the feeling of coming across like a perv if anything ever happened. I gently rebuff them and point them in the direction of guys their age but they usually come back.

What’s an acceptable age gap for a friend’s with benefit type situation? What about for a relationship? I have seen opinions all over the place. I just wanna know the guardrails.