u/New_Entrepreneur_991

As the title says, about a week ago, I (25f) was talking to a guy (22m) for about a month, after encountering each other on campus for quite a while. I asked him out, he planned it and we talked back and forth for a while before going on a few dates. Our most recent one, we hooked up for the first time, but I sort of, erm, froze, since I wasn't expecting it to happen that night but was willing. I just couldn't really stay very present (I have experienced bad situations in the past and my body sometimes freezes even though my mind is present).

Either he noticed or got in his own head or wasn't really into it and he went soft. I suggested changing positions, since he seemed exhausted. Then, I just asked if he needed a break because he went soft again and we sort of awkwardly cuddled for a while. The more we sat and watched tv, the more I got in my own head and realized I was a little overwhelmed and tired. I then said I should probably head home (it was a weekday) before I got too sleepy to drive home. I thought about comforting him and asking to hang again, but felt vulnerable and worried I might make it worse. We sort of hugged good bye and that was it.

I messaged to let him know that I had a nice time, but he's been ghosting me ever since. Do I just let it go? Do I reach out again and ask for closure/to hang out again? I'd like to see him again.

TLDR; We hooked up a week ago, he went soft, and I didn't respond as well as I wanted to, we haven't talked since (I sent him a message the next day saying I had a nice time). Do I send another message or let it go?