u/Next_Glass_8371

My ex used to watch videos of naked women

One day I was using my ex's phone and I saw porn videos in which only women were visible, and also naked women teasing videos. I kinda felt disgusted. When I confronted him, he said his friend sent him and he didn't watch it. I was kinda upset and he became defensive as half of the month we used to do long distance. He said I need it there to watch. You don't send me anything so I had to do something. I was kinda shocked but later on he apologized that only naked women videos to have on his phone is not a good thing, so I got convinced as he told me he won't keep it. But after a few months I found the videos again. And he smirked and said the same shit again and told me not to overreact. Like I don't have any issue if you are watching porn but having naked women on your phone felt kinda weird to me. Now I don't know if my reaction was valid or if I overreacted.

Though he's my ex now :)

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u/Next_Glass_8371 — 21 hours ago