Is my BP okay?
Dday was 13.5 weeks ago. Was caught having an extremely graphic emotional/sexting affair and they saw my diary entries with heavy limerence/love confessions. I then came clean about a physical incident with a coworker 9 years prior.
For their birthday I went all out. Took them to an all expenses paid birthday trip and gifted them a few expensive gifts, and had a couple of nice dinners at fine restaurants. On our last night they said they loved me for the first time since dday. They also said “life is too short to hold grudges.”
In the early weeks they requested I take a travel contract so we could get some space. It started after the birthday trip. The day before they brought up the affair which was triggered by media. They got angry, took a nap, and when they woke up they didn’t mention it again.
Now that I’m gone, we’ve been talking/texting/facetiming as often as possible. They haven’t brought up the affair at all and neither have I. They have been complimenting me again, using pet names, and saying “I love you too” and blowing kisses.
I feel like we are on the right path, but… something doesn’t feel right. Are they rug sweeping? Should I bring it up or not? I am lost and confused.