u/No-Barracuda9029

To hybridize I like to abduct a very far away courtier, turn them into a vassal, convert their land to their own culture, promote cultural acceptance with my steward and then do grand tours.

However, is the converting their land step here important? When doing a grand tour to their counties, is the ruler's culture the one you gain acceptance with or their land's culture? Just want to make sure that I am not wasting time converting their lands.

To anyone who needs to hear this...

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It's not over.

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A lot of people here seem to feel like it's over for them. Feeling ashamed. Broken. Full of self-hate. Hopelessness. Feeling like things will never get better. The fact that you're on this subreddit trying to connect with others itself is evidence that you truly aren't far gone.

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You're not broken. You're not unlovable. You aren't hated, or disliked. Everyone is living in their head far too much to actually feel that way towards you. It's pretty hard not to. Don't hate yourself. Don't think that you are less of a person because you are alone. If absolutely terrible people who both you and I know of can make friends, so can we. It most certainly is not over for you.

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Reading this over... I don't know if I made this for me or for you.