u/No-Conclusion3328

So i was visiting south korea for travel/ leisure 2 years ago . For context i am indian . Seoul was super beautiful and nice but i liked Busan even more . One of these nights i got lost in busan as i dint know korean and all the blocks looked the same . So i got tired and sat on a bench on a side walk next to a 7 11 and started smoking a cigarette . A few minutes go by and this guy maybe in his 40s-50s came up to me and started talking to me .. offered me a cigarette as well . He asked me if i was alone and where i am from . He was on a bicycle . He told me that he lived nearby and if i wanted to come to his house . We might have barely talked for like 2 minutes . Now if this was in india i would totally understand because indian people will always invite you home . But i got flustered and told him no and thanks . What do you think would have happened if i went along with him? It has always been one of my ‘what ifs?’ Is it common for korean people to invite strangers home? Btw i absolutely loved south korea . I hope i get to go back soon .

I hate men . I hate that i hate that i like men . I met someone on grindr and we decided to meet and he said he would come over.. now i was busy douching and preparing myself and suddenly he blocked me .. i felt so extremely frustrated . The other day i met this dude .. we had great sex .. like it was beyond great and he felt great as well .. he told me so and the conversation was amazing before and after . He literally couldnt stop kissing me while leaving .. the next day .. ghosted .. i was left so confused .. like what? What is wrong with men