Premature Ejaculation help
I’ve quite literally grown to think there is no solution. I have suffered from PE my entire life. If it’s oral, I last 2 mins max unless I’m drunk. The moment sexual intercourse starts I either cum immediately or after 2-3 pumps. When I was like 17-18 is when I got my first gf, she would literally sit in my lap and I’d cum from the pressure. I am 26 years old. When I was younger I didn’t care much because my refractory period was almost immediate, but now I honestly don’t know for long it takes but it’s long enough for my partner to believe im not into them because I can’t get it up. Which, if I actually were to…I still would cum immediately again.
My solution has been to use honey packs so after I could just stay up but I finally went and sought help and my doctor prescribed me escritalopram 10 mg which after a week I could see it was almost impossible to finish. That said, my last partner left thinking I wasn’t attracted to her. Fast forward, 2-3 months of taking it, finally having sex again with someone else and what do you know. I’m back to normal despite taking it.
I don’t know what to do, I’m kinda over it and just given up. I don’t want a heavier dose nor do i wanna keep having to take honey packs I just don’t understand and out of options. I don’t think It’s my fear or anxiety of messing up because when I have a honey pack I don’t have any anxiety or anything and it still happens and I’m just confident because I know the honey pack is gonna bring me back up. I’m just hyper sensitive downstairs and I don’t get why.