The math says I can coast. my brain says absolutely not.
So I’ve done the math like 20 times. 7% returns, 4% rule, every FIRE calculator I can find.
They all basically say the same thing: I’m fine. I could stop saving so aggressively, coast for a while, and probably be okay.
And yet I’m still maxing my 401k, still at the same job, still stressed out.
Every time I think about taking my foot off the gas, my brain immediately goes: what if the market tanks at the worst possible time? What if I leave tech for a few years and can’t get back in? Especially with AI changing everything so fast, it feels like stepping away could make me obsolete overnight.
I know the numbers say otherwise. The problem isn’t really the numbers anymore. It’s fear.
Part of me wants to finally do something I actually cared about when I was younger. Maybe try documentary filmmaking or something completely different.
But there’s also this uncomfortable question: if I’m not working toward the next salary bump or savings milestone, who am I?
I even dumped all my accounts into edwealth just to see everything in one place and run different scenarios. It actually helped seeing the whole picture instead of numbers scattered everywhere.
Still haven’t pulled the trigger though.
Has anyone here actually reached the point where they could coast and then... actually did it? How did you get past the mental block?