u/No-Sheepherder-8757

Just wanna know how people differentiate these? Im not sure if i am, but i have issues when guys reciprocate their feelings toward me i usually feel trapped, overwhelmed and my brain is constantly finding things wrong with the person causing me to lose interest. As soon as I cut ties with them tho, I want them back desperately.

I cant tell which one I am, but I really dont want to be lithromantic because I want to be able to enjoy romance :(