My parents are acting weird about my weight
Sorry for any grammar mistake, english Is not my first language.
I came back from uni a couple of months ago, and I'll stay with my parents until September (long story).
After I got home, my parents soon started telling me that I gained weight, especially my mother. They're not being particularly mean or anything, but it's clear that they're not happy about It.
Now, I know I'm fatter than I used to be, thought I don't think I gained that much weight (I still fit in most of my clothes), but I find their comments grating.
Their concerns are unfounded. My health Is good and I'm not in danger, nor do I have an ED.
The thing Is...mom Is obsessed with diets. She's been trying to lose weight for as I can remember and she has a terrible relationship with food and her body. Always complaining about being too fat, always feeling guilty about every bite she puts in her mouth.
I tried to tell her multiple times that she should consider speaking to a therapist and try to have a healthier relationship with the way she looks, but it's like talking to a wall, so I've lost my hope.
I just wish she didn't project her issues in me.
As for my father... he's always been tactless and he doesn't care.
When I was a child I was afraid my parents would divorce, now I almost hope they do, because I think he's one of the reasons why my mother Is so insecure.
Today It was hot and my mom told me to try an old pair of shorts, and they didn't fit (I mean, I've had them since I was 16 and now I'm 22, seems normal to me).
I tried to shrug their comments off, but my mom told me (in a "light" tone) that she appreciates my nonchalance because she would cry if she were me, while my father told me that at least my ass looks better, now that I'm fatter, and I should try to lose my guts to look perfect.
I'm almost considering going on a diet just to shut them up.
TDLR: I gained weight and my parents keep making comments about this, and I'm tired of them.