u/NoAssistant2867

I was moving some slabs around in my Tego enclosure when I noticed that there were a ton of crickets and looking closer, there was a ton of baby ones as well. What can I do to manage the population as I don’t want them getting out and spreading to other parts of the house I don’t mind a cricket or two running around, but they were quite literally hundreds of baby ones in her enclosure, which is a converted room in my house.

Edit: sorry about the punctuation. I have a learning disability and grammar has never been my strong suit

Some backstory when I was 20 I very suddenly lost my
mom. They sent me into a spiral and I started abusing alcohol. my family moved back to my hometown and started hanging out with an old group of friends in this group of friends was my ex. We had an off and in rel relationship for around two years before I finally left her for good after she cheated on me. I was raised Catholic and she always had this obsession with trying to get me to sleep with her even though at the time I wanted to save myself for marriage. One night we were all hanging out as a group of friends at their apartment. I’ve gotten absolutely wasted and blacked out. The last thing I remember is my ex walking me into one of the rooms so I can fall asleep when I woke up the next day, I was undressed, which is it too unusual but not something I’d usually do at a friend’s house a couple days later I found out through a friend that my ex have been bragging about how she finally broke and slept with her, but I don’t remember it at all. The next weekend we were all hanging out again when I confronted her for lying about it, that’s when she told me she wasn’t lying and that she did it because I didn’t try to stop her. Everyone started yelling at her and eventually we all kicked her out. A few months later I find out that she is pregnant but I don’t think too much about it because she went through men constantly seeming like she was showing off her new man every month. A few months after her son was born I finally saw a picture of him and he has my exact hair and eye color. The reason I am writing this is I just saw a picture of him on his fifth birthday and I thought it was a photo of me.
As the title says I don’t want anything to do with either of them she violated me that night and he is a reminder of that . The worst part is that I wanted kids, but reacent medical problems have made that borderline impossible for me.