u/NoCareer5788

don’t really know how to explain this properly, but I’ve been feeling weird about something.

My boyfriend and I have only been dating for around 9 months, but we’ve actually known each other since school. We were really close friends back in 7th–8th grade, and now we’re both in our early 20s.

So recently he randomly asked me if I had a DMAT account. Later he mentioned there was an empty biryani box near him and I asked if he had eaten anything. He said no, and then told me he basically had no money in his account.

I told him I could order food for him, and he said okay, maybe in the evening. But then I started thinking that if I’m already helping once, maybe I should just send him some money instead because it might help him for at least a few days. The thing is, I don’t really have a lot of money either. I just sent whatever little amount I had.

Now I feel confused and weird about the whole thing. I care about him a lot, obviously, but I also don’t know if I’m overthinking or if this is normal. I also didn’t want him to feel bad or go hungry.

I genuinely don’t know what to think about this situation......

He don't even ask his family for money..and he is independent but still struggling with his work...

I helped him because that's what I can do ...

Pata hai Aaj kya hua

I need help ...plz

So basically, I am a girl, okay? And I have studied in DU for the past 4 years. I am in one of the top North Campus colleges and everything. And I am going to join Symbiosis.

And the memes that I am seeing lately, okay—I mean, like, they say that if you want to understand DU girls, then they start their breakfast with ipills. What the hell? And they say their body counts are very high, and Symbiosis girls are even more notorious. And they say all kinds of things, like they sleep around here and there. And literally, like, really, I am that person right now—I am going to move to Pune for my college in Symbiosis for MBA and all.

And bhai sahab, I just don’t know—people say such disgusting things, like first she will study here, then she will study there, and then her body count will be this much. It’s character assassination, you know, and objectification. They say such dirty things, everything.

And I just feel so ashamed of it. Like honestly, even if a girl was in a relationship with one, two, three, four—whatever it is—it’s her choice. And bhai, they make such disgusting memes, like their day starts with egg rolls, they get pregnant, have abortions, do this, do that, are characterless, and everything.

Imagine getting a future wife who has studied in DU and Symbiosis and everything. And my CV literally has both, yaar. So what even am I?

And the type of mentality we hold with, like us, like a condition like me—what will people even say? And I just feel so sad and terrible that, like, if someone is getting educated, someone is doing good in their life, somebody is talented—that is why they are getting into DU, right? And after that, they are talented and, you know, whatever sort it is, they are going to Symbiosis and everything.

These two are good universities in India, okay? If you compare them with lakhs of universities that are present here in India, obviously they are. But still, people say such dirty things. It feels so bad. Forget what people say, but it feels very shameful, like oh my god, what I am seeing and everything. And you know, it shows in people’s mentality and everything.

Even your friends are going to tease you in that way. It’s so frustrating, honestly.

Pata hai aaj kya hua

Just wanted to share guys

All the tipss bata doo guysss ...and girls...... Joining Symbi for Mba after graduation from DU