32 year old with lifelong ED
Looking for some advice from this wonderful community.
I’m 32, and have had ED for as long as I can remember.
As a teenager, I can’t recall having spontaneous erections or morning wood.
Even now, I rarely have morning wood.
I’m gay and I’ve never successfully had an erection in the presence of a partner. It’s creating a vicious cycle for me.
When I masturbate, I can get hard but never as hard as I would like, and my erections disappear very quickly without stimulation. For most of my life, I masturbated prone as it was the only way to get off without having an erection.
I’ve tried Viagra and Cialis…neither seems to work for me.
I’ve been to see a urologist and he wants me to have a Doppler ultrasound on my penis, pelvis/perineum as well as a pelvic angiogram. He didn’t say anything about checking nerves or erectile reflexes. He has suggested I speak to a sex therapy as well. He has dissuaded me from using injections as I am so young.
Please help me, as the urologist said the only probable option moving forward is an implant if sex therapy does not help.