Breaking up is hard
As titled. My boyfriend (33M) and I (31F) have been together for 5 1/2 years now, and have lived together for the past 3. Not only is he LL (maybe just for me?) but also gets very defensive when I try to bring up our intimacy issues. So far the frequency has been less than once every 2 months, riddled with ED and 2 minute quickies, and I am starting to feel that I am LL4him too. Doesn’t help that every association I have with him and sex is rejection or being put down. To complicate things, we also have a pet together.
This is really venting, but also wanting successful cases to share how they’ve broken up and regained confidence and have since lived a better more fulfilling life. I feel stuck and alone, and not many people will understand why I’m breaking up on the outside because we seem so “stable”. Ladies?😢