u/NoPangolin8998

There's a lady in my office (She is a cute lady tho) and I think she joined a couple of months back I guess. We sit in the same row. Whenever I pass by her she stares at me. I noticed this a few times. One day when I just entered my work area I happened to cross her way and the way she gave a prolonged eye contact, it definitely felt different.

Every day I pass by her she looks at me. Even today when I sat in the canteen she came infront and was drinking water and while sipping water she gave a couple of glances at me.

What does this mean..? Shall I approach her.. why I'm asking all this is because I'm kinda doubtful if she is actually single because I see her always talking on phone. In the canteen, in her work space, near corridors etc. I'm suspecting that she is in a talking stage with someone or could be in a relationship too. That's why I'm pretty much doubtful about her.

Also I'm getting shy infront her because her eye contacts are driving me crazy that I'm totally avoiding any eye contact with her these days. 😭

What say reddit girls and boys, men and women.. shall I go approach her or shall I just let it pass ? 🥲

Had an experience on reddit. So I met this girl here on a random night 6 months back here on Reddit. She texted me so randomly even she didn't know why.. but 10 mins into chatting with her I got a sense that she was ovulating. She directly asked me for a sext and as the guy being guy and the single in me was also craving for some feminine touch I gave in. That was a wild wild night. Sure, she was a bit inexperienced but I gave her the best pleasures she has ever had. I mean she came three times in a span of 5 hrs. Yep that's how wild it was. And on that night itself we have decided mutually that it was casual and that's the last time we were talking.

Now cut to 6-7 months later, 2 weeks back she messaged me on telegram randomly like "hey hey, wassup I just wanted to check in on you blah blah.." so to that even I casually replied to her. And then the chat continued a bit long that night too.. it went from flirty to naughty and we didn't even know. Again the same corny night next day too. The next night was even deeper.. I mean we were too much lost in lust that we didn't even know that we decided to never speak again. Yep two weeks back after a heavy session of sexting we decided to never do it again.

And it happened again 2 days back. She always tells me to go away, this is the last time we are talking, I have attachment issues, I want a genuine relationship blah blah but we both end up wetting each other again. Idk if that's chemistry or what.. but at one moment while talking to her it felt very much genuine.. she told me even she felt it.m now feeling a bit weird about it.

Wtf is this man. I miss her now.. more like the way I described her in those cozy moments lol.

Came back to my native a few days ago, and yesterday morning turned into something straight out of a slow, peaceful movie scene.

A bunch of us cousins went into the greenery to drink fresh toddy. We had already told the seller to keep around 10–12 litres ready. We reached, sat on soft green grass, poured ourselves that fresh toddy in our plastic glasses, and just… existed. No rush, no noise, just laughter, sarcasms, fun and that slightly sweet, slightly wild taste of toddy.

Somewhere between glass two and three, we noticed an old man sitting nearby. Turns out he was the guard of the mango farm we had casually taken over to sit. Probably in his 60s. We offered him a drink, he joined us quietly.

What stood out wasn’t what he said but what he didn’t have.

No phone. Not even once did he check something, scroll something, or pretend to be busy.

Out of curiosity, we asked him, “Don’t you get bored sitting here all day?”

He smiled and said, “After some time, monkeys come. I spend time with them.”

We all burst out in laughter at once, not in a joking way but out of the pure joyous innocence of his, of him hanging out with his monkey buddies.

That’s it. That’s his version of entertainment.

No notifications. No reels. Just him, a farm, and a bunch of monkeys dropping by like daily guests.

And honestly… it didn’t sound boring at all, infact felt shame on ourselves that we are tied up with our phones for life now.