u/NoProgram6956

Writing this as I’m balling my eyes out.

I feel like a cheater. Every time I confess to my partner, it always ends up with them saying “does it matter?” “You chose me over them” etc

EX:

“I think I flirted with this person”

Partner: “does it matter?”

“I was being emotionally intimate with this person”

Partner: “does it matter? You chose me over them”

“I was being to couple-like with this person”

Partner: “Well, you chose me over them so it doesn’t matter”

Etc etc

Today my brain has been nagging about me intentionally cheating and it won’t stop. Idk how to prove it, I just have a feeling that I intentionally cheated and idk whether to tell my partner or not.